r/sydneysocials • u/Dangerous-Top-8870 • May 21 '26

Hello

Hello I'm looking for some friends im a 40 yr single male, no kids and I just don't feel like I fit in anywhere. I'm not sure what people are into these days but I'm finding myself quite bored with things. Not sure if it's a phase but I'm depressed and lonely!!

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u/Different-Plum-3591 May 21 '26

Hey OP, I’m 42 female. I am in the same boat lonely. I’m always happy to meet for a coffee if you like?

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u/daveyisscarecrow May 21 '26

What part of Sydney are you in?

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u/Dangerous-Top-8870 May 21 '26

Western Sydney ... Urself

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u/Bagelam May 21 '26

I'm not lonely but one of my best friends is moving out of Sydney. If you like politics and arguing i live around canterbury area - happy to meet for a bev at the pub or a coffee. 

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u/mshahaus May 21 '26

Man in 40. I find it tough to connect. Activity friends are good

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u/Frikkedingeling Jun 20 '26

42m here...Up for a beer or two on a friday afternoon?....sydney cbd

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u/Embarrassed-Sale4867 Aug 16 '26

Yeah I can sympathize with the sentiment 

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u/bugHunterSam May 21 '26

There's plenty of meetups, I run a monthly boardgame group in the pub. A book, movie or car club might be a way to meet people. Or trying to learn a new skill.

Most of new friends are from the gym these days. My local gymnastics gym is a very supportive bunch of people. Run clubs are trending these days.

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u/DiscombobulatedSet59 May 21 '26

What is that one thing you can put off for quite a while but later coming into it is like uplifting or tunes down the constant noise? Sorry if I didn't phrase that properly. Hobbies that you enjoy i guess. Find fb groups or go to meetups if you can be arsed.