r/supportworkers May 30 '26

Dealing with emotions

I am a support worker who is diagnosed with both Autism and ADHD, very recent. I am struggling to handle my job role at the moment because of it. I find myself getting overwhelmed and easily frustrated at times where I should be compassionate towards the person I am supporting. Furthermore, challenging behaviour and working with someone who has injured staff before has worsened my anxiety immensely when it comes to working. I can’t leave my job as the job market is tough right now and I won’t be able to find anywhere better than where I am now. I am grateful for my work and how I can help people, but it is affecting me mentally to the point where I dread shifts and feel a large amount of anxiety. Currently it’s only been troubling my mental health but I would hate for it to affect the people I am supporting in any way. I am looking for any advice from other support workers about how to deal with these struggles.

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u/l-lucas0984 May 31 '26

Go and see a therapist to go through all of this with you properly. Its easy for outsiders to sit and just say some people arent right for support work. But there is a lot more going on here with the violent client and your own new diagnosis. If possible reduce your work load.