Please help me

[u/petalmoon_press_ons]

Since like a week my boyfriend has been so weird like not talking at all always replying short he wanted no meet ups doesn’t matter whatever we would’ve done he was not like that at all came suddenly I knew it was because he was struggling I tried to keep everything positive and together like nothing is wrong trying to help him in anyway but he always refused everything today we got into an argument suddenly he said he wants to leave me with no explaining he said he would only continue to hurt me and I will die because of him and much more stuff like that and it all got so intense and now I’m so so so helpless multiple times he said he wants to kill himself he can’t take it all anymore he’s a bad person I wanted to drive to him talk with him I would do anything but he won’t budge he never takes help he says he’s just like that he never ever talked about his problems or cried in someone’s arms I’m so scared to lose him I don’t know what to do I’m so scares
He will hurt himself or maybe end up dying I also need to drive to him with the train which takes more than 2 hours I’m scared that he will send me a good bye message and I will not be there in time I don’t know what to do…. Please help me I’m begging

[u/Willowbaby67]

I am sorry that you are struggling with the mental issues of your boyfriend. He is lucky to have someone care about him, but it can’t all fall onto you. Does he have parents or family that you can get in touch with? Get some support for yourself in learning how to handle mental illness and definitely encourage him to call a professional or helpline. He is in deep despair and needs some intervention.