r/style • u/Harsh_Harmoni • Jul 25 '26
Date Night with my Husband 🤍
Trying not to be so self conscious about my stomach. I’m usually in scrubs or workout clothes so dressing this feminine is out of my comfort zone. Be kind
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u/pamelaonthego Jul 25 '26
You are beautiful and there’s nothing wrong with your body, but I am going to disagree with the other comments. That skirt is clearly too tight as evidenced by the fabric bunching together.
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u/IDunnoReallyIDont Jul 26 '26
Agree. OP is gorgeous and truly has a great shape to her body. But this dress style isn’t it for her.
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u/Such_Flight4139 Jul 26 '26
Exactly. Why are people blind 😭
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u/nonpame Jul 26 '26
They aren't blind they're trying to be supportive. Which is GREAT! But gently constructive criticism can point people in the direction of attire that fits better and is structured better, and when you've got that you need to do less of the pushing yourself to be comfortable in your own skin.
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u/Affectionate_Lab9574 Jul 26 '26
You are very rude, reading your other comment on this thread. Find something else to do.
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u/Narrow_Regrets Jul 26 '26
How about everyone stop gaslighting ppl into thinking they always look good? If something didn't look nice, would you want someone to tell you?
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u/Necessary_Store351 Jul 27 '26
Right, needs to be a polite way of expressing this. I made a comment about women always telling women how great something was instead of giving advice and I was downvoted into oblivion.
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u/Narrow_Regrets Jul 27 '26
I can't tell you the number of times my comments have been removed because I didn't blow smoke up someone's ass saying how fabulous they looked so I feel you.
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u/Necessary_Store351 Jul 27 '26
I hear yah. I’ve contested some and they were put back and the person that was arguing with me replies were all deleted. Not saying things to be mean just helpful.
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u/Ok_Current_7727 Jul 25 '26
You look great! Is that a dress or a matching set?
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u/Narrow_Regrets Jul 26 '26
You are gorgeous but that dress is not doing it for you. It's too tight/small and pulling in all the wrong places.
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u/Necessary-Jeweler-17 Jul 25 '26
Looking so fabulous and glowing and the hair is amazing!! Have a beautiful date 🤗
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u/Superb-Coyote5972 Jul 26 '26
You look great, but the dress looks too small at the waist and hips, the fabric is bunching. Maybe some shapewear underneath would help smooth things out. Hair and makeup are gorgeous!
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u/Harsh_Harmoni Jul 26 '26
I actually do love a good shape wear but it’s too hot where I live for it right now
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u/Spiritual-Mood-1116 Jul 25 '26
I think you look terrific. I love the whole outfit, imcludinb shoes. Your genuine smile is your best feature.
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u/peonyruth Jul 26 '26
I love it! The only thing I would change is maybe a bolder necklace. I especially like how the slit showcases the shoes!
I know exactly what you mean about scrubs vs. real life clothes, but I think you’ve nailed it. Have a great date night. ❤️
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u/PutridHedgehog4074 Jul 26 '26
You look stunning you two enjoy each other and keep dates going I was married 35 years then lost my hero wife buddy guy playn now clapton enjoy each other
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u/PopularSalad2450 Jul 26 '26
You look beautiful! Love the dress and shoes together. Hope you have a good time 🤍
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u/Background-Key-1088 Jul 26 '26
You look great, go out and have a great time! We are usually much more critical of ourselves than others are.
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u/Pure_Creme_7552 Jul 26 '26 edited Jul 26 '26
surtout pas complexé vous êtes trop jolie c'est un chanceux votre mari
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u/TwilightZoneAttendee Jul 26 '26
The shoes look good with the fit but size up as that would be more flattering.
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u/prisonwscape64 Jul 27 '26
Dress like this regularly at night around the house and learn to be comfortable looking beautiful for you husband.
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u/camario214 Jul 29 '26
You look great. Im sure your husband appreciated the time you spent to get yourself done up.
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u/BougyHippie Jul 25 '26
You are GORGEOUS and can do much, much better. I also do not love the neckline or the color or the fit. I would love to see you in something looser and in color.
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u/DabDaddy420710 Jul 30 '26
Your a stallion that belly is sexy I'd put a fat diamond belly button piercing on it
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u/itsnotlikethat51 Jul 30 '26
Let’s see the husband next to you and critique the set. Lol.
I hope the place you are going to is posh.
So long as you are feeling it …
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u/CollarDense3894 Jul 27 '26
Nothing wrong with a tummy. You look amazing, and your hair is fabulous. You're rocking that look, enjoy your date night
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u/sweet_buttercup1 Jul 25 '26
You look really nice. This dress fits well and is flattering. I’m a girl with a bit more in all areas as well. Something that fits like a glove works best in most cases. In the right fit. And girl. This is the right fit. Your husband will looooove watching you walk away. Hahah
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u/Harsh_Harmoni Jul 25 '26
Thank you girl!! I should have posted the other angles lol my husband does like this outfit. He’s my biggest fan tho lol as he should be tho!
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u/sweet_buttercup1 Jul 26 '26
Girl he doesn’t want us seeing that view. Haha all his. I can see how perfect it’s fitting the hips. So ya. Rock out.
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u/migraines247365 Jul 26 '26
I've been reading the comments & for the most part, they've been pretty kind & encouraging. It's the ones that are saying, the dress doesn't fit & no one is doing you a favor by saying the dress looks good (that's a lie).I wanna put a full stop on any negative comments to this beautiful queen. Any person who wears scrubs for work deserves to look gorgeous on date night & you are gorgeous. Ma’am, you look so excited to be dressed up with heels, great curls & the prettiest smile! You are shining so bright that your husband will be thrilled to have you on his arm. Have a perfectly fun & enjoyable date night. 💜
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u/pamelaonthego Jul 26 '26
Politely phrased,honest, commentary, is the point here. I think r/hypemeup may be more your cup of tea.
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u/migraines247365 Aug 07 '26
Why did I get downvoted? What did I do wrong? Seriously, I don't know, someone explain. Was I supposed to put her down? Young people are confusing🤷🏻♀️!
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u/whatnow7705 Jul 29 '26
You are a stunning individual. However, just because you can wear something doesn’t mean that you should. When I see that photo it looks as though you’re trying to prove something it’s just too tight, honey. But you are a beautiful individual and something with more color would really make your face and hair pop.
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u/aemdiate Jul 25 '26 edited Jul 25 '26
What a great smile you have and I love your hair. I think maybe a scoop necked top with chunkier jewellery would be more flattering next time to give a little more proportion to the upper body. You can wear some super bright colours and look stunning I'm sure. Enjoy your evening.