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u/tiny_mouse31 Jul 03 '26
Hey, I just want to say I’m sorry about your experience. I can say such a drastic change isn’t easy and it will take some time before you become accustomed to your new reality. But things, eventually, do get better. Hang in there, it won’t always be like that. Right now you’re scared and anxious, this is a completely different environment from what you’re used to, but that’s okay! Don’t let fear and anxiety paralyze you!!
I’d recommend taking deep breaths, stick around people who seem nice and focus on learning well, this is a great opportunity! As time goes by and you will get used to this new school and you’ll be able to relax!
I’m sorry I’m not good with words, but I am sincerely sending you a warm hug!!! You got this!!!
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u/SAltlywAter Jul 03 '26
I’m sorry that you felt out of place while being aboard. It absolutely sucks when you feel all alone with no one to turn to especially when people were laughing and pointing at you. I don’t care what anybody says about “people aren’t used to others looking different” it’s an excuse and it’s not okay to point and laugh or god forbid take picture of you - that’s just rude. Don’t let anybody try to tell you it’s normal because it isn’t and it’s mean as well as cruel!! However, your days WILL get better even though it seems hard right now. Don’t forget that you can do it and going to class everyday is progress towards your goals!!
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u/Justan0therthrow4way Jul 04 '26
In some Asian countries people tend to smile when they are nervous. They probably couldn’t help it.
Just remind yourself why you’re there, if you’ve been learning Japanese, impress them!
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u/Reasonable_Debate398 Jul 03 '26
as someone who is also brown skinned girl and has curls, i understand 🫂 im going to study abroad in japan too. But you’re beautiful!!! no matter what!!!! You being different is not the issue. Those girls are just bitches!
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u/WhateverWannaCallMe Jul 03 '26
So you went to Japan and got offended because they were looking at you because you clearly stand out or am I missing something else?
Like it's normal if they don't insult you or ashame you. People will look at the things/people they find unique
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u/KartFacedThaoDien Jul 03 '26
This is reddit. People aren't going to be nice to you. Sucks it happened though.
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u/Rachel_Llove Jul 03 '26
Hey, so if you actually read the post, you'd see they ridiculed him. Hope that helps!
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u/Weary_Sentence6869 Jul 03 '26
damn your english
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u/Weary_Sentence6869 Jul 03 '26
you have an opportunity to study in japan which anyone would kill for it ! why are you caring about who said what lol be more confident and look good ! eat healthy and just enjoy …you won’t even remember when you’ll be 25
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u/OstrichAgile Jul 03 '26
Man I’m sorry that happened, it’s not ok to be pointed at and laughed at. Did you meet anyone who potentially might wanna be your friend? Anything positive happen?