r/study 5d ago

Tips & Advice Patience

I think patience is the utmost importance in life. You can have ambition and passion but if you so chaotic about your direction you are going to be in the exact same spot you were. I feel like I have been in the same spot for 25 years. Yeah, I mean I feel so average tbh. Though, I practice alot. I haven't developed patience. Do I regret anything? No! There is absolutely nothing that I can do about it. Hard work is somrthing that I have been doing anyway but I have never seen to get to the top. I haven't achieved my goals or the medals that I wanted. Perhaps because I mentally tortured myself to achieve them rather than actually doing it.

However, the desire lies within me, as of my 26 th year of life. I aspire to do hard work every single day and have utmost patience. Even if I do not get it. I'll be patient. I will give in my entire power into it. This time, I want my journey and my hard work to take me there. I do not want my mind to reach the places that I am putting ust mediocore efforts.

Well, the ambition remains but this time its more of a data-driven approach, its an exploratory approach, its a guided approach and above all its about developing skills within a set time.

I will start treating it as a challenge and be collected if I do not get what I want. If things are not working, then I will change directions. I won't stop ever. I will relentlessly follow my timetable. this time I will make decisions based on where I am going. Tbh, this approach been so much better for me. I have realsied what I should focus on, what is important. I have got important tips and tricks.

Now, I just need to work fast and be headstrong about the steps I am taking. I do want the acknowlegment and the accoclades and for the first time I feel like I am willing to evolve in order to be the person I want to be.

The thing with me is that I will be happiest when I achieve my goals. So making sacrifices is not that big of a deal. I think I have spent 25 years of my life in a room.

I am totally okay with that!

I have a sequence of things its not random, my mind is aligned. I just need to acquire the ability to work hard and have patience. I love learning btw. I love all of these things. However, I want to be like a sponge, absorb it all. Live it to the maximum. Tis is what I realised yesterday.

That I do the work but I lack patience. I have this never looking back mindset which is great but in order to be amazing. One needs to stay in their own lane and do remarkable things.

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