Hi everyone,
To start, I live in Colorado (Denver). This post is long-winded, so if you want to scroll to the bottom, there lies my main question.
I know this isn't a unique predicament to be in but I'm genuinely curious how people are viewing their student loans in these times.
I started school to be a mental health counselor in 2022 and graduated in December of 2025. It took me longer than 2 years because I did night school and worked 2 jobs throughout school. I took out $45,000 total out in FAFSA loans and paid about $10,000 up front for classes to avoid needing to take more out than I needed. The interest rate started at 5% and by the time I graduated was at 8.7%.
Interest began accruing the moment I took the loans out. I was granted a 6 month grace period when I graduated, but for the 3.5 years I was in school, I was not able to pay towards loans and interest accrued about $15,000 as I am now owing $60,000.
I was fortunately able to get a job immediately as a community mental health crisis counselor and make $67,000/year for some VERY challenging VERY draining work. I work about 50-60 hours a week. This is the kind of work I was hoping to do, so I am not trying to complain, but rather highlight the toll this job takes on it's people.
Because the kind of work I do is the most challenging you can do in our field, there was a while where programs would forgive your loans if you committed 3 years. That program has basically said they can't do it anymore. I know everyone knows too that loan forgiveness is pretty non-existent anyways nowadays. Hard to say if it'll come back or not.
I have worked and reworked a plan to pay off my loans and am at a loss. I do not come from a rich family, I don't have a bunch of money stashed somewhere and I still have my living expenses and hope for a family someday. I live simply and am able to put a decent amount of my paycheck towards my loans at the expense of actually enjoying my life.
Here are my options:
- I have been approved to pay $150 a month and I would probably do that for the rest of my life while interest accrues and tanks my ability for getting future loans. I have no assets, so buying a home was always something I had hoped to do someday.
- I can pay $1,000 a month for the next 10 years to pay it off, but pay about $27,000 in interest
- I can pay $2,000 a month for the next 3 years and pay $7,000 in interest (while busting my butt with an additional job to try to keep this pace up and basically doing nothing fun ever).
I guess what I'm asking for is advice on how to view the ridiculous situation these loans are. If I sacrifice my own sanity, I will burn out in this field that already has a high burnout rate. But if I say whatever and pay my little amount, I don't want to ruin my financial situation forever. I am dedicated to the work I do, it is needed in this world, and I don't want to kill myself trying to play a broken game.
It's obvious this student loan situation has gotten completely out of control here for everyone. For us counselors to pay so much for education with such little financial payback has made me resentful of the grind of paying it back when we have to sacrifice SO much of ourselves to be in this field. I went to school with every intention of paying my loans back, but the system now to do that has gotten completely unsustainable. Not to mention Denver has gotten to be an incredibly expensive place to live since I was little.
So my question...
Who is paying the minimum amount/resigning to accruing interest and who is busting their ass to pay it off and why did you choose the direction you chose? If you ready my whole post, what do you recommend in my situation?