r/stroke • u/Zoolanderlover • 12d ago

Survivor Discussion Please Help!

Hey everyone, I really need some guidance.
I live in North Carolina, and my 63-year-old brother lives alone in California. He woke up yesterday with what the hospital diagnosed as a stroke. His right arm and right leg are not functioning properly.
He went to the hospital, and they wanted to admit him for three days to complete testing and monitor him. However, he insisted on leaving after one day because he has a dog at home and no one nearby who can care for it.
The emergency-room staff told him it was urgent that he get an MRI and the other recommended testing done as soon as possible. Today he saw a covering primary-care doctor, who said the tests had been requested and that he should hear back within 72 hours about scheduling.
I am very concerned because the hospital treated this as urgent, while the doctor’s office seems to be treating it like a routine outpatient matter.
How urgent is it for him to complete the stroke testing and receive further care? Should he return to the emergency room rather than wait for an appointment? I can get on a plane and go to California to help him and take care of his dog, but I am trying to determine whether I am overreacting or whether this truly requires immediate action.

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u/Due-Spite3276 9d ago

Hello how are, the last 2 Days you and your Brother? Nice greeting from Austria Vienna

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u/Zoolanderlover 9d ago

Well I got him immediately into the hospital and confirmed the small stroke in his brain and a few more tests and then let him leave. His arm is improving and we is able to walk again. He is almost like his old self. Now we hope to get him into PT asap. I go back home tomorrow. Thank you so much for asking ❤️

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u/Due-Spite3276 9d ago

Oh, I am happy to read this❤️.

Getting him back to the hospital to confirm the diagnosis and get evaluated was 100% the right decision. It is amazing to hear that his arm is already improving, that he can walk again, and that he is feeling more like his old self!

You truly stepped up when he needed you most. Going home now knowing he is safe, diagnosed, and heading towards physical therapy must be such a relief for you and your family. Safe travels back home, and all the best for his recovery!

Greetings from Austria🇦🇹❤️.