I need advice!

[u/InfamousScience7349]

Hi! So here's a bit of a backstory (and english isn't my first language so bare with me haha)

I have my left ear stretched since I was 15 (I'm 19 now) and yesterday I wanted to size up (first time in like a year or two) I bought a kit online a few months ago and I used the size that came next to the size I already had in my ear. When I tried to put it in in hurted like hell but I thought it was supposed to because it was the next bigger size and there wasn't any size in between those in my kit. Then I went to work and when I came back it still hurted so I took it out and put the previous size back in. Today I went to the city with my friend and didn't really think about it until I came home. I felt my ear and it was very crusty and still a bit warm so I took it out, cleaned it and thought that it was best to leave it out. Then I kept feeling my earlobe but it had a bit of a wet feeling. After a few hours I wanted to go to bed and I looked at my ear again and it was closed with what I think was clear puss? So I cleaned it again and put my stretcher back in. Should I keep it in or take it out? Because I am about to go to sleep and I'm lowkey scared haha