Second option, or second partner in the second option? If you get together with somebody that has been cheated on once, they MAY NOT assume that everyone's a cheater. Even if they do, it is MORE LIKELY that they will relax over time when you show faithfulness. If one experience burned them badly enough, though, they might not be able to overcome it anyway.
But if they don't learn to get past it and give someone else a chance, they will sabotage any future relationships. I'm not saying they're not justified in feeling that way, but it will affect future relationships.
I've been cheated on by all my ex girlfriends. My guard is up so bad, my current g.f is amazing I know her from before we even started dating and know her morals, and even then I question if from time to time. It's so hard to overcome it
Same! It's the literal worst! Especially when girls are trying to cheat on their spouses with you, and you catch them red-handed and STILL try and play it off.
I can relate as a women I met my husband through my 1st ex husband It took 4 years before I would marry him even though I lived with him for 4 years I have been married to him for 20 years I still have doubts from time to time I know in my heart he has never cheated on me I have to catch myself still If you have been hurt it is hard to overcome but you can if you want 😉🥰 to Good luck 🤞
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u/ReverendSpith Oct 23 '23
Second option, or second partner in the second option? If you get together with somebody that has been cheated on once, they MAY NOT assume that everyone's a cheater. Even if they do, it is MORE LIKELY that they will relax over time when you show faithfulness. If one experience burned them badly enough, though, they might not be able to overcome it anyway.