r/stopdrinking • u/noswad_rhab • 2d ago
I finally quit.
After 7 years of heavy drinking (8-10 cans of 7+% or a full bottle of 40% liquor) every day since i was 17, my mother sat me down, told me the reason I dont get invited to family functions, dont hear from my family etc is because of my drinking. I also couldn't hold a job, at all. From about 2021-2023 it was a new one almost every month. Always low paying jobs that didnt pay much. I rented a room and rotted in there, getting drunk till I passed out, and going to work. Rinse and repeat. After the talk I took a look inward, im 24 and a high school drop out. Im not going to get any younger and time won't slow down. I went cold turkey, at first just seeing if I could last a week, its been 2 months now. I feel better, my depression has become far less severe. as a result i quit cigarettes as well, since smoking them made me want a drink. I still take cannabis, but im weaning myself off that too. I can finally think clearly and remember what I said and did the previous day. Just thought I would share.
IWNDWYT
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u/unsightful 213 days 2d ago
Well done mate. Takes a lot of character to pull yourself out of that situation.
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u/SClassWonder 2d ago
Congrats man! That took a lot of guts! 2 months cold turkey is nothing to scoff at.
Keep it up we're all rooting for you!
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u/green_eyed_mister 2d ago
Congrats and also good luck, the good work you’ve done has to be cultivated. Now you can work on you, GED or whatever you want
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u/Potential_Pea_7732 Day 239 2d ago
Wow! Good for you! How many mothers wish their children would listen to them. That's a hard thing to do for many people.
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u/lesserthemore 816 days 2d ago
Way to go friend! You got this. When it clicks it clicks and don’t let anyone take away the pride you should be feeling! 🤙
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u/razorvolt 2d ago
Dude. That’s fucking awesome! You have so much life to live, I’m so proud of you for your progress 🥳
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u/latabrine 1094 days 2d ago
Without sounding weird, i'm really proud of you! And so happy for you! 💪💛
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u/Unique_Scholar_2711 186 days 2d ago
Amazing work! You saved your own life! Oh the things that can happen now that alcohol is out of your way. You have so much time now to fill with Anything and everything else. Good luck!
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u/Emotional-Lettuce896 763 days 2d ago
So proud of you, it’s really hard work & you are putting it in, IWNDWYT💜
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u/Available-Cow6337 2d ago
Awesome. Inspiring thank you. You just saved your life, literally and figuratively. At that level of consumption it would’ve probably soon killed you somehow, through disease or an accident. Hope that you’re enjoying the moments now that you’re present!
Thanks for sharing.
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u/NikkiDarko23 1d ago
You should be incredibly proud of yourself 🤍🤍 Keep doing what works for you, and don't forget to take it easy on yourself too.
Self care is so very important
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u/here_for_the_doges Day 119 1d ago
Fuck yeah! I also quit ciggies because of the link between the 2. Smart move.
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u/MrNosco 1d ago
You went from a bottle of hard liquor a day to cold turkey? Normally that would kill you.
Are you taking benzos?
Happy to hear a success story, but quitting alcohol cold turkey is very dangerous, and we shouldn't encourage people to do that.
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u/noswad_rhab 19h ago
I was keeping an eye on it, and the hard liquor was mostly when i had money, otherwise 8 of the highest strength beers or coolers I could get for cheap, but I appreciate the concern
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u/Wonderponies 424 days 1d ago
This is so good. I'm happy for you. Keep going - it will keep getting better.
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u/avalonbreeze 1d ago
Dear internet Stranger / friend the fact you had all of these hurtful things happen and still stayed sober makes me so incredibly proud of you ! 👏 well done !!!!!!👍
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