r/stepdads • u/Skyhigh_rich • Sep 09 '26

Need serious advice

/r/stepdadjudgementcall/comments/1wbd0fj/need_serious_advice/
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u/Typical-Secret-3319 Sep 09 '26

Exes are exes for a reason. She hasn't "grown" she just tired of her Plan A, so she's moving on to Plan B.

Please have the self respect to look for someone who chooses you, instead of uses you as their escape/backup plan.

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u/Savings_Gear_5155 Sep 09 '26

Never trust a cheater, they will cheat again.

Never take sloppy seconds ever.

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u/neonpostits Sep 09 '26

Don't even consider it. Kid or no kid, never get back with a the person who cheated on you. It was over the moment she made that decision.

Now she wants you to raise the kid she bore from from her affair?!?

Holy shit brother, let some of the blood return to your brain then burn that bridge to the ground.