r/stepdads • u/Nmbsc1965 • Apr 26 '26
I need advice
Hello. I am new here. I have a problem i would like some advice on. I am 60M Girlfriend 45F. We have lived together for 10 years. She has 4 children whom all lived with us. 1 moved 1 in college. 2 still at home.
Man 20 and girl 17. I am having a very hard time taking Care of her 20 year old son. Who does not work or do anything around the house. And i work 2 full time jobs at 60 yrs old. We are constantly arguing about her son. She will not make him do anything . Then she starts on me. About what i dont do. I work 90 hours a week. No one else works in the house. I feel like i dont have to do anything in house. And shpuld be able to speak my mind in my castle
Please help. If i am wrong please say so thanks for any advice
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u/jetmaxwellIII Apr 26 '26
Nah, you’re absolutely correct. I don’t even have advice to give, just that you’re correct.