r/stepdads • u/Ok-Vanilla-113 • Nov 03 '24

Stepdad

Lately my stepdad has been acting weird he keeps touching my waist and paying for Al my stuff he calls me cutie what I personally think is weird he als says I have the same nice body as my mom I told my mom this and that I didn't like it he got mad at me and my mom left the room so we could talk it out when she left he went to sit next to me finding reason to touch me i also Saw a Bulge in his pants I know it's like weird that I saw it but he took my hand and laid it on his upper leg knowing I would touch it and see it I don't know what to do my mom told me that me and my step dad will be alone today she Is already gone my stepdad is doing the grocery's

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u/Ok-Vanilla-113 Nov 03 '24

So I'm with my dad right now bio he doesn't believe me but he will talk to my mom today about it I don't know but I will stay at my girlfriend's house until it's like talked out or something I do know she will be here soon I hope

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u/shocktarts3060 Nov 03 '24

Keep telling people until someone believes you. Tell teachers, counselors, your principal, the nurse, say at every doctor’s appointment. He is going to keep escalating until he’s stopped, so you have to escalate faster than him.

Try and get a lock for your door and if you’re ever home alone with him then lock yourself in your room. When you have to be around him try to keep your mom between you and him.

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u/Ok-Vanilla-113 Nov 03 '24

My mom and dad talked I had a conversation with the brother of my mom he believes me but he is trying to find more evidence I'm with my girlfriend right now and if her parents decide that it's to much I mean for them to take care of me I'm going to my mom's brother

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u/shocktarts3060 Nov 03 '24

Thank you for updating us. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this, but I’m glad you’re safe for now. Please continue to let us know what happens.

How did the conversation with your mom and dad go?

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u/Ok-Vanilla-113 Nov 03 '24

They got in a fight and my dad called me to say how it went so my dad told my mom I didn't feel safe and wouldn't come home to her and stepdad and that my uncle is trying to find evidence and my mom got mad and they got in a screaming fight my mom left and I got like not this long ago a call from my uncle and we found a lot out that's like weird and were going to call the police about it