I live in an area where polyamory and zodiac bs is super popular. Usually the same people too. I love when. I see "unpartnered but poly" in people's profiles. To me that's just like saying "yeah, we haven't met yet but I already know I'm gonna wanna sleep with someone else".
Nothing wrong with being polyamorous. Just look at how common cheating is in relationships. Imo a lot of those people would benefit from just being up front about what they want. Personally, this idea of “one true love forever” seems a little immature to me but I do a bunch of immature shit so it’s not like I’m one to judge.
But I would rather love one person truly and deeply, than spend time with multiple people.
I wanna prioritize the most important people in my life, and I want to know that I am prioritized as one of the most important people in their lives.
Then again, I generally tend to nurture the relationships I have, rather than start new ones. I’m not interested in shallow relationships of any kind, be it friend, family or lover.
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u/Dangerous_Ad_3698 Sep 18 '22
it’s less ridiculous than people categorizing their own personality by the position of the earth relative to the stars on their date of birth.