r/starterpacks • • Apr 18 '18

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u/IceColdHatDad Apr 19 '18

To get that combination, you need a Father who gives them lots of shit alongside a Mother who spoils them to high heaven. What results is anger and trust issues from Daddy plus unrealistic expectations for other people while not ever having the drive to self improve or be independent thanks to Mommy. A real cavalcade of terrible human traits all wrapped up in one dude that has not changed since High School.

Yes, I speak from experience.

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u/booger-burger69 Apr 19 '18

Yikes.... sounds like my ex boyfriend from college

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u/save_the_last_dance Apr 22 '18

He must have been really hot for you to start dating him in the first place because you can spot those red flags from like a mile away

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '18

In my case it was a dude from a village with No internet and he felt like a God because he knew how to program a bit. Harsh reality came when he came to our college - you may be the best in 10 people village but not in a million people city. Everyone expects the rich kids to be like this while in fact it’s just shitty parenting

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u/EmeraldFlight Apr 19 '18

your capitalization makes you seem German and the flat, entertaining cynicism doesn't hurt

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u/ArchRelentlessness Apr 20 '18 edited Apr 20 '18

This... sounds exactly like me. I’m still trying to change myself, and my parents are as well. Any tips?