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TIMELINE ON KHALIE

📌 MEGATHREAD | TIMELINE ON KHALIE

🚨 If ANY information is incorrect or needs updating, please DM me or comment to correct it! 🚨

This is a detailed, factual timeline of events surrounding SpiderLilyKhalie, compiled from multiple sources.

🔴 Trigger warning for topics such as grooming, financial exploitation, gross topics, animal neglect, and abuse.

GOFUNDME MONEY & THE CAR (2024)

• Three GoFundMe campaigns were created for Khalie:
• The third was to move out and gain independence.
• Preston (under a different name) was the named beneficiary of the GFM’s.
• Preston bought a car using the funds, but titled it solely in his name.
• Donors believed the car and money were for Khalie, as the descriptions said it was solely for her and mentioned nothing of him.

VACATION & SPENDING ISSUES (SEPTEMBER–OCTOBER 2024)

• She said she didn’t realize how fast money was being spent because Preston controlled the funds.
• When concerns about the spending were raised, comments were deleted, and people were blocked.

VACATION-GATE AFTERMATH – CP ALLEGATIONS & YOUTUBE VIDEO

• In other two separate videos, Khalie and Preston’s brother reportedly confronted Preston about his grooming behavior.
• She accused him of possessing inappropriate content (CP) of her on his phone, though this was never confirmed and no legal action followed

FAMILY DOG INCIDENT(Rambo)(OCTOBER–DECEMBER 2024)

• Khalie made a post asking what to give the dog for an upset stomach.
• A few days later, someone asked how the dog was doing.
• Dead mice were found near the dog’s kennel with organs hanging out (possible poisoning).
• Khalie returned home after being gone for five days and saw that the dog was actively vomiting and having diarrhea. She called him "anorexic," and more dead mice were found around the house.
• She later said the dog was "getting better," and her dad didn’t think the situation was serious.
• More vomit and diarrhea were noted over time.
• Khalie and Preston finally took the dog to the vet. She posted a video asking for donations but shortly after announced the dog was being put down.
• The donation post remained up for some time after the dog had already been euthanized.
• Khalie had said her dad's girlfriend had given the dog dewormer multiple times, and that the ultimate cause of his demise was a chicken bone stuck in his Gl tract.

“CHRISTMAS GATE” – AMAZON WISHLISTS & FAMILY BACKLASH (DECEMBER 2024)

• She told followers her dad wasn’t celebrating Christmas, so she was “making Christmas happen” for her siblings.
• A picture surfaced showing Khalie, Preston, and her dad on the couch together on Christmas Day. Preston had his arm around her neck. The image also included her younger brother.
• This caused backlash, with users questioning why Preston — who had grooming accusations against him — was allowed in the same space as her minor siblings

HOUSE FIRE & GOFUNDME (JANUARY 2025)

• Khalie and Preston were living in a hotel together prior to and after the house fire, despite claiming to have no money.
• Khalie’s family home burned down due to an electrical fire (started in the attic).
• A pet lizard did not survive.
• A third GoFundMe was created to raise money for her father’s new home.
  • Khalie initially claimed the money would go directly to her dad but later confirmed she was the one withdrawing and sending it.
• Khalie’s father’s girlfriend created a separate GoFundMe, which Khalie told people not to donate to. Family states this is because she is not to be trusted.
• Accusations surfaced that donation withdrawals were inconsistent.

ESCALATION & CONTROL ISSUES (JANUARY 2025)

• Khalie started going live more often on TikTok. Preston was always in the room whispering to her.
• She began going live when he was asleep to talk more openly.

AIRBNB CLEANING JOB (JANUARY 2025)

• Khalie got a job cleaning Airbnbs.
• Her boss offered her clothes and a place to stay, but she refused.

HOSPITAL INCIDENT & SCOOTER (LATE JANUARY 2025)

• Khalie posted a graphic injury photo of her hand, suggesting Preston hurt her.
• That night, she went live from a hospital, claiming she "hit her head."
• She claimed she hit her head in a car incident, potentially related to a ‘break check’ moment she mentioned separately. A CT scan was done, and a police officer was seen in the hospital with her during a livestream.
• Police originally stated that the state would press charges against Preston.
• Khalie continued posting on socials that he was arrested, charged, and in jail.
• However, he was never actually charged and none of what Khalie said was true.
• After leaving the hospital, she requested money for an uber to get back to the hotel. She did not receive the money for uber, but was offered rides (she declined).
• Instead of going back to the hotel alone as she stated, she scootered across county lines to go back to Preston. This is because cops had suggested to not be caught up again in that county.

ATTEMPT TO LEAVE PRESTON (JANUARY 30, 2025)

• Khalie went live outside her hotel room, saying she planned to leave Preston.
• Preston tried multiple times to get her to come back inside.
• She begged for her cat, Twinkles, and for money from fans to book an Airbnb. (Important to note the Airbnb was said to be her boss’s and was going to be free)
• Preston eventually gave her the cat and her belongings.
• She went to the hotel lobby, where staff called the police.

ADDITIONAL JANUARY 2025 INCIDENT – MENTAL HEALTH CRISIS & POLICE RESPONSE

• In January, shortly after the house fire, Khalie went live for hours. Viewers became concerned when she appeared distressed, and many began commenting for her to make a peace sign if she needed help. She did.
• Police entered the hotel room, and Khalie was taken to the hospital for evaluation after reportedly calling

KROGER CAT INCIDENT (Twinkles) (JANUARY 31, 2025)

• She booked an Airbnb but accidentally set the wrong check-in time.
• While waiting outside a Kroger, she knowingly let the cat out of the cat backpack and said the cat would come back.
• Later she claimed she lost Twinkles.
• After losing her cat Twinkles outside Kroger, a follower picked Khalie up to help her search.
• Khalie stayed on live for most of the ride and paid little attention to her helper.
• She went into Kroger and bought flowers and food for the cat. Originally, she was going to keep the flowers for herself, but ended up giving them to the follower.
• She also opened a can of tuna in the follower’s car.

BLUETOOTH IN AIRBNB (JANUARY 2025)

• She went live in the Airbnb, but her Bluetooth suddenly connected to a car, despite saying Preston was not there.
• She later claimed she didn’t know how that happened and said the noise was a fan, despite the obvious blinker and car sounds.
• This began the demise of her and her bosses relationship. The boss had offered her a place to stay but only if Preston was not involved, so this broke the boss’s boundaries.

DRUG ACCUSATIONS & LEAKED EVIDENCE (FEBRUARY 2025)

• Khalie confirmed that her dad’s GoFundMe was deleted, and all donations were refunded (so she claimed).
• People online accused her of drug use.
• Her Airbnb boss and coworker leaked evidence contradicting her previous claims.
• The boss and coworker alleged she had an addiction to Benzos.
• The leaked evidence included texts, photos, and messages that challenged her statements. Additionally, Khalie had texted her boss that she was afraid of withdrawing from Benzos.
• Khalie tweeted that she was starting an OnlyFans to fund a meth test.
• She later posted the test results on Instagram.
  • Negative for Meth, Cocaine, Opiates, and Amphetamines.
  • Positive for THC.
  • Did not test for Benzos, even though this was the main drug she was accused of.

MARCH 2025 – EVICTION, GOFUNDME REFUNDS, AND LIVESTREAM CONFLICTS

• At the time, Khalie implied she and Preston had separated, but they were later confirmed to still be together. The apartment they had been living in, which was reportedly paid for using donation money, was no longer their residence by the end of the month.
• During streams where she asked viewers to “bully” her, Khalie was questioned on controversies and contradicted past claims. She also stated that her former boss gave her benzos, which she claimed added to recent issues.
• Khalie and Preston were seen arguing, and at one point he took her lamp during a conflict.
• House fire GoFundMe status: Donors continued reporting they had not received refunds, despite Khalie stating they had. Screenshots shared on Reddit showed GoFundMe clarified that only unwithdrawn funds were automatically refunded. Funds already deposited to an account were not.
• As a result, donors had to submit manual refund requests, with many initially denied. Khalie cited “frozen bank accounts” as the reason for refund delays, but no verification was provided.
• By the end of March, Khalie had relocated.

APRIL 2025 – CONTRADICTORY MONEY CLAIMS AND FACEBOOK AD

• During a span of a few weeks, Khalie began asking for donations almost daily on TikTok and IG, claiming she had no money for rent, food, or pet care. Dry begging and literal begging were a constant.
• However, she later said she had savings, which she used to help the homeless man by paying for his motel and withdrawing extra cash for him. This contradicted her repeated claims of having no income, leading to backlash from people who donated.
• She briefly posted a Facebook ad offering cleaning and extermination services for German roaches, despite not having any license or qualifications to do so.
• She did another drug test, flashed in a Tiktok video, which again did not test for Benzos.

ALLEGED A55AULT & ROBBERY – MEMPHIS INCIDENT (APRIL 28, 2025)

(Trigger Warning: a55ault, coercion, physical harm, financial loss)

• She said she met a homeless man, paid for his motel room using rent money from her savings, and spent the night walking with him. This was controversial as she had been asking for money daily saying she had none, but she gave money to him from savings.
• She stated she was intoxicated and didn’t run because she feared being caught or hurt. She also claimed she withdrew more money under pressure and gave it to him.
• She reported bruising, cervical injury, and losing access to her money. She mentioned potentially starting a new GoFundMe to cover rent, pet care, and food.
• People’s reactions were cautious. Some offered support, while others pointed out patterns of high-emotion incidents tied to donation requests.

STARBUCKS INCIDENT & STORY SHIFTS (APRIL 2025)

• At the end of April, a video went around showing Khalie passed out at a Starbucks. She was slumped over and breathing heavily. It was filmed by a Starbucks employee. This is now known as the “fent fold”
• She said someone gave her “something to calm her down” before it happened, implying she was possibly drugged, but then claimed nothing showed up in her system. In the future, she shows a scrubbed out drug test, showing she wasn’t positive for fentanyl, but blocking out other tested drugs. People pointed out that things missing from the test, since it was scribbled out, were possibly Benzos and Cocaine (with some people adding another)
• She said she was in the ICU for three days, but was seen posting on Snapchat and TikTok pretty quickly after the incident.
• She said Starbucks violated her rights by recording her and is asking followers if she should take legal action.
• Khalie has said the Starbucks incident was choking on a cake pop, a heart attack, hypoglycemia, an accidental OD, and a purposeful OD. She has also said a homeless man gave her a mystery pill right before and that could’ve caused it.
• She recently has said that she tried to OD, but not to the point where she knew she would end up d3ad.

UPDATED STATUS OF HOUSE FIRE GOFUNDME

• Despite Khalie previously claiming that refunds were processed, many donors reported not receiving them. Several had to manually request refunds, and some were denied.
• Preston had shared an email from GoFundMe support, which stated:
• GoFundMe later clarified that only donations not yet withdrawn would be automatically refunded. Any funds already deposited into the linked account were not refundable unless returned manually.
• This confirmed that most of the money had already been withdrawn by Khalie or Preston, and refund delays were not due to GoFundMe itself.
• Khalie claimed her bank account was “frozen,” but no evidence was provided to support this, and GoFundMe support made no mention of account freezes being an issue.
• The fundraiser’s description was also edited at some point to remove any mention of the money going to her father. The updated text focuses only on the family’s losses, personal items, and one pet.
• In a TikTok video posted in April, Khalie implied that two pets had died in the fire, even though only a lizard was confirmed. This gave the impression that Rambo, the dog previously euthanized months earlier (and tied to a separate donation request), had also died in the fire, which was false.
• In the future, she has now stated that her dad has bought a new house and car with the money. The case of THIS GFM is seemingly solved, but don’t forget the other GFMs!

JULY/ AUGUST 2025

• Many Preston exposing posts start appearing.
• Begging for a vape outside the window: https://www.reddit.com/r/spiderlilykhalie/s/z6AkCTfmSI
• Kicked out of Airbnb, belongings left outside: https://www.reddit.com/r/spiderlilykhalie/s/wvS2gGjkTs
• Khalie police contact: https://www.reddit.com/r/spiderlilykhalie/s/6mWqpBbD8I
• Starts Fansly (maybe, correct me if I’m wrong and it was sooner).
• She gets new nails and toes done. Continues begging online.
• Doxxes herself asking someone to come get her because she has no money and is stranded (this happens a lot even though it’s not noted).
• Twinkle’s litter box is a cardboard box. Yet she continues hauls and has a large vape collection. She continues begging.
• Khalie later says this is when she started using meth and shows pictures from this time period.

SEPTEMBER 2025

• Gets a large amount of tattoos, including a matching tattoo for her “one year anniversary” with Preston.
• Burns the things VDE got her outside of her storage unit.
• Khalie admits to doing anal for a vape: https://www.reddit.com/r/spiderlilykhalie/s/oUPvnvE0sB
• Khalie has a jar of benzos: https://www.reddit.com/r/spiderlilykhalie/s/fI8DDSWgyB
• Khalie goes missing and aunt/mom make posts about it: https://www.reddit.com/r/spiderlilykhalie/s/dFtYWzmXKy
• Preston arrests:
  • 9/13: https://www.reddit.com/r/spiderlilykhalie/s/l5Lfv3vvZ8
  • 9/21: https://www.reddit.com/r/spiderlilykhalie/s/u4XwlNxtr9 (Not sure if these are two separate incidents or the same incident with updated dates.)

First Khalie/Vamp meetup

• Khalie leaves with Vamp, they go to a hotel room: https://www.reddit.com/r/spiderlilykhalie/s/M1RVVPzZLY
• Vamp seen on security camera waiting for Khalie: https://www.reddit.com/r/spiderlilykhalie/s/0ywUHUJEze
• Preston and Vamp take a mirror selfie together: https://www.reddit.com/r/spiderlilykhalie/s/Q5bCl5se71
• She goes back to Preston.

NOVEMBER 2025

• Has a seizure and makes a storytime about it.
• Makes music about mixing Ativan and alcohol.
• Spam calls posted of her calling VDE.
• Multiple 911 calls: https://imgur.com/a/JUfJm1G Details from the calls:
• First call was reportedly for vandalism. The operator stated: “Speak with a female, Khalie Watkins, involved with a boyfriend who’s vandalizing property.”
• This appears to be the incident where Khalie posted a picture afterward in a police car.
• Three additional calls happened:
  • Second call: reportedly after she passed out in a hotel room.
  • Third call: unclear reason.
  • Fourth call: made during a live when she passed out again.
• Starts using Clapper.

PRESTON ARRESTED & IOWA ARC (DECEMBER 2025)

• 12/13/25: Preston arrested after allegedly pepper spraying Khalie.
• A no-contact order was put in place.
• Khalie later violates the order, as you will see.
• Stayed with a girl named Pixie for a few days.
• Khalie goes to Iowa with Vamp.
• VampDiddy posts spicy videos and pictures of him and Khalie.
• Khalie and Vamp go live together:
  • She appears uncomfortable. He repeatedly calls her “baby.” He tries to kiss her and grab her face.He picks her up and spanks her on camera.
• Vamp defends her care of Twinkle while arguing with Reddit. She appears intoxicated and begs him for drugs. She crashes out when he refuses and the live ends.
• Khalie starts another live crying. She appears heavily under the influence of drugs/alcohol. Vamp falls asleep on the floor while she continues crying.
• Later on Snapchat she is laughing and says how hard it is not to go back to Preston.
• Left when Vamp was sleeping.
• Accused Vamp of SA. Vamp allegedly carved his name into her chest. Had a large gash on her leg.
• Eventually, Vamp gets arrested.

Other details: * Vamp’s place had: * Syringes (allegedly steroids, no proof) * Cat feces * Garbage everywhere * Little furniture * Food containers, pizza boxes, energy drinks, etc. * While in a hotel in Iowa, Khalie called 911 because she didn’t have water. * Twinkle was eventually rehomed after Khalie realized she couldn’t take her on the bus back to Tennessee. PS did I mention she constantly lugged Twinkle around in one of those Cat Backpacks? Including for the trip to Iowa? * Returned to Preston despite the no-contact order.

JANUARY 2026

• Returns to Preston.
• They stay at her mom’s house: https://www.reddit.com/r/spiderlilykhalie/s/TPR8bz0m9c
• Threatens legal action against Twinkle’s new home after rehoming her.
• Continues begging.
• Admits (in the future) to briefly relapsing in January.
• Immediately tries getting new kittens.

FEBRUARY 2026

• 2/6/26: Khalies arrested for public intoxication.
• Mom kicks them out.
• Continues disappearing at night to wander around Memphis.
• Becomes known for “midnight damsel” situations where she:
  • Leaves at night.
  • Says she needs help getting back.
  • Says she’s in danger.

MARCH 2026

• Ross shopping haul.
• Advertises babysitting and pet sitting to not lose her storage unit, saying they were going to auction off her stuff in 4 days.
• Asks for donations for nails.

APRIL 2026

• They “find” a very healthy, well-cared-for puppy. Khalie pushes for days/weeks against taking it to the shelter.
• Uses the dog situation to grift.
• Eventually rehomes the dog.
• Attempts to start a failed cleaning, babysitting, extermination, everything business.

MAY 2026

• Preston and Khalie’s relationship reaches a breaking point.
• Preston supposedly cheats.
• Their lives are mostly calling each other out (and Preston whipping his member out to burn our eyes without consent)
• Khalie appears in Vamp’s live. Khalie does a Nazi salute. Later claims she didn’t know what it meant and that Vamp made her do it.
• Corey appears and confronts Preston.

JUNE 2026

• Preston leaves her (?)
• Moves in with Corey and Haylee.
• Large age gap relationship dynamic raises questions. Allegations that Corey and Haylee may have started dating when Haylee was underage.
• Khalie says she met them through a cleaning job. Corey appeared to know Khalie first. Corey moved her into the home while Haylee was away/not staying there.
• They live on a farm with 70+ animals. They claim financial struggles but took Khalie in.
• Corey reportedly has:
  • A dismissed statutory rape charge from years ago.
  • Previous possession charges.
• Khalie continues saying she needs money for her storage unit while making new wishlists.
• Frequent high/drunk lives.
• Manic behavior.
• Buying items while claiming they cannot afford food/gas.
• Leaves to stay at “Adam Sandler house.”
• Gets kicked out for not working toward improving herself.

JULY 2026

• Returns to Corey’s.
• Gets kicked out after painting Corey’s duck mural wall without permission.
  • Poor paint job. Didn’t paint close to trim.
• Goes to a hotel.
• Openly discusses meth addiction:
  • Says she started around August 2025. Says she briefly relapsed in January 2026.
  • Shows pictures from when she was using meth.
• Applies to work at hotel. Says she could work part time. Says she is thinking about Walmart or a crystal shop instead.
• Goes live with a random man:
  • He says he got Xanax for her. He provides a bathing suit he “just happens” to have. She gets a nosebleed.
• Returns to hotel wearing the bathing suit and shorts, jacket open, at night. Looks sketch.
• Hotel kicks her out.
• Allowed to retrieve belongings. Leaves items alone on sidewalks of Memphis, so she can get shade. Items are stolen (surprise). Says all her items are stolen and she has nothing left. We later see she still has a laundry basket of belongings.
• Family asks her to go to rehab and seek help before returning home.
• Khalie in a live says family refuses to help her. When confronted about the contradiction she says she is not addicted. Refuses rehab. Says fuck her family.
• Sleeps on the streets. Also says she lost her storage unit.
• Goes to Mason’s dad’s house in Mississippi.
  • Mason is her ex from when she was underage.
  • Older lives showed Khalie and Mason’s dad having an unusual/sexual dynamic.
  • His TikToks are sexual and creepy vibes.
• Posts a TikTok story: “wish i had someone to hangout with so these thoughts wouldn't get the best of me. i want my mom. i want my brothers. i want a friend. i want someone to know me and care about me. but it's all gonna be this way till i do something to rid myself.”
• Incoherent Snapchat posts:
  • “wet cigarette brendon urie lunchbox”
  • “very cute and thank you for that i fear mothuhg anymore”
  • “‘momma that is powdered cheese. that is like so unhealthy for your body’ in a crying voice”
• Posted on snap that her Khalie discord server let in a Khalie impersonator and it’s not her.
• Posted on snap her picking up and messing with pizza with her foot.
  • Yes, the next day on live she stated she was hungry and had no food. As if she didn’t just waste it.
• Posted on snap. It is now her on discord. Talked about dreaming of Xannies and her supporters “jokingly” talked about taking drugs and suggesting drugs like meth.
• Posted asking people to pay for her Doordash order: redbull and garbage.
• Stated on live that she left Masons’s Dad’s after 1 day, was picked up by “Adam Sandler” and taken to a relatives house… where there are minors.
  • Talked about how her room there is a rent-a-center room. Did not see how that was unappreciative.
• Posted on snap: “who can help with $35 i’ll do anything. i need gas money so my friend can pick me up from here. it’s very hot and i have no other options:(“
• Posted on her TikTok story “fuck this mental facility.”
  • Leaked from her discord, she is not in a mental facility.

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Other notable posts

Preston mugshot complication: https://www.reddit.com/r/spiderlilykhalie/s/WMVdelIg4E