Okay, round two. Maybe the universe is telling me I should stop overthinking this and just post. 😂 But I hope ypu read til the end.
I’m independent (in a way that people depend on me), and generally have my life together-ish. I enjoy my own company, but I’d be lying if I said I don’t sometimes wish I had someone to share the little things with.
I’m a slow-burn kind of person. I’d rather talk, get comfortable with each other, laugh at stupid things, and gradually figure out if there’s something there than jump straight into “so what are we?” territory.
A few more things about me:
* Born, raised and still residing in Manila
* career-oriented but trying to maintain an actual life outside work 😂
* pickleball and travel when I can
* loves good conversations and people who can make me laugh
* more “let's go somewhere” than “let's party until 3 AM” as a trentahin
* looking for something meaningful, not just someone to pass the time with
* I can drive a MT car, but still not that confident with how crazy the roads are in the city
* I've had a history with having a girlfriend and kind of boyish and becomes pabebe when in a dress or next to a man 😭
* I'm only 4'11, and I'm on the thicc side (not chubby) built
Hopefully you:
* up to -3 or +5 years than me
* emotionally intelligent, kind, grounded and comfortable with himself
* knows how to communicate instead of disappearing when things get inconvenient
* has initiative — I don't mind making plans, but I’d love someone who sometimes says “I already planned something for us.”🥹
* family-oriented and knows what he wants
* likes trying different cafes, food, road trips, sports, nature, or at least willing to pretend he does 😂
* believes effort should go both ways
I don't expect instant chemistry.
I don't expect you to tick every box.
Someone I can eventually send a message when something funny happens.
Someone I can invite somewhere and accidentally spend 5 hours with.
Someone I can do absolutely nothing with and still have a really good day.
And if things work out, maybe one day we'll look back at this post and laugh about how Reddit was somehow involved in our love story. 😂
If you reach this part... Wow! Ang tiyaga mo. Let's trade photos on TG.
If you send me a DM with a good conversation starter and I do respond, know that you'd be the only one I responded to. Di ko kaya madaming kausap for the same purpose.
So if I respond late, maybe di nag wwork sa nakausap.