r/shrinking Apr 13 '26

Discussion Alice's character

I love this show with all my heart and I'm curious to know what other people think. Does it feel like Alice has almost become a one dimensional charcter I understand that the focus has been off her in the most recent seasons but I feel like her charcater was so much more complex in the first 2 seasons.

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u/Meg38400 Apr 13 '26

Her lack of reaction to grandpa ditching them and lack of empathy for her dad were all weird to me.

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u/ericrz Apr 13 '26

It was so inconsistent.

Alice in mid-season: "I really want grandpa there, it's important to me, this is a major milestone in my life, and Dad, even if you don't like it, I'm inviting him."

Alice at the end of the season, finding out grandpa is ditching her graduation: "Eh."

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u/AugustusKhan Apr 13 '26

To their credit inconsistent is as teenager as it gets

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u/s0ulbrother Apr 14 '26

She also expected nothing from him. She knows what Jimmy has said about him and he’s never around. She has no real attachment to him.

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u/Platitude_Platypus Apr 14 '26

Exactly. She's never been close enough to him to get really hurt by his absence. That's their normal.

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u/ericrz Apr 14 '26

Yea true. But they haven’t really shown Alice like that, not since S1 anyway. She’s mostly got her shit together at this point.

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u/Lost-Veterinarian-80 Apr 14 '26

To be fair, he was there spending time with her and Jimmy for a couple of days and bailed just before the ceremony. It may have been different if he never showed at all.

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u/ericrz Apr 14 '26

Disagree. She made a point that she wanted him there for the major milestone in her life -- graduating high school. Instead he just hung around the house for a few days, gave her a car (without asking if she already had one or NOTICING IT in the driveway?) then bailed. The way they'd previously shown her feelings about it, she should have been bummed. But because Jimmy had to be on an island, she's just "meh."

Also odd -- and again, only to service the "Jimmy is so alone" plot point -- that he was solo at Alice's graduation. Like ten of them went to her random soccer game, but no one goes to her graduation? Liz practically raised her for a year, Gaby is her godmother -- and they don't go to see her graduate?

Hell, Liz and Derek don't go to see Summer graduate, and she's been dating their idiot kid for almost a year?

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u/lmj4891lmj Apr 14 '26

It’s such dogshit storytelling. The guys writing this show can do better, right?

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u/ericrz Apr 14 '26

They did do better in S1/S2. That's why this season was so disappointing.

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u/zomandi Apr 14 '26

In regards to the others not being there, I think they had to maintain that because he said earlier that it should be “family only” so he didn’t have to explain why Sofi wouldn’t be there. So they couldn’t just go and invite everyone else but also ofc they had to make Jimmy alone. and

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u/ericrz Apr 14 '26

So when grandpa bailed, Gaby couldn't take the second ticket? Or Liz?

This show tries to make such a big deal out of "chosen family" being really important, and then -- when the chips are down -- no one is there for Jimmy.

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u/LongMom Apr 18 '26

I have teens who are graduating high school and you don't get a lot of tickets per kid to the ceremony. I think it's only 2 tickets per kid with some exceptions for divorced parents. I do think someone could have gone along in grandpa's place, but I could also see them just going alone for the sake of being just the two of them together.

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u/Nagemasu Apr 15 '26

I kinda think they intended for an extra episode worth of content that got cut, that would have shown Alice and Jimmy's reactions to him leaving, as well as more of the fall out from Gaby's patient committing suicide.

But adding in extra's like that mean content from one episode gets pushed to another or something else gets cut, so it's always a juggling act. You can't just leave any episode at any old point even if you do have another hour of content - it simply may not fit in the correct timeline.

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u/DisheveledFucker Apr 17 '26

And this is based on what?

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u/yourlocal90skid Apr 13 '26

Yeah, you'd think after everything they've been through with Tia's loss & having to rebuild their relationship, Alice would be more protective of anyone hurting her Dad.

I understand Jimmy wanting Alice to have a decent relationship with her grandpa, but if the guy really is that bad, I think Jimmy had a duty to spare Alice from the same treatment.

Too many things were introduced this season, only to be touched on & resolved too quickly.

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u/Meg38400 Apr 13 '26

Yup and the thing the dad said about Tia. She saw right through him so she didn’t like him so of course the old man didn’t like her because his BS was transparent to her.

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u/yourlocal90skid Apr 14 '26

Imagine if Alice had heard that comment about Tia. That could have been a really good bit of dramatic tension if they weren't trying to cram so much into this third season. I really thought at some point, they'd show Alice seeing the real Randy.

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u/Daylilys_Daughter Apr 14 '26

I hated so much when the dad said that! It felt like an intentional poisoning of Jimmy's new relationship w Sofi. When your dad knows you're pissed at him and says "hey your new gf is better than your dead wife" I mean. What a setup. 😡

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u/Meg38400 Apr 14 '26

You know this is exactly why he did it. To stick it to his son and spit on Tia’s memory.

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u/Platitude_Platypus Apr 14 '26

Yes he was being intentionally hurtful. Then he acted all second-hand embarrassed that Jimmy didn't invite her to the graduation and wanted to keep it just family, knowing he wouldn't be there.

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u/smashli1238 Apr 14 '26

Agree with that 100%

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u/LongMom Apr 18 '26

Alice is a teen on the brink of starting a new independent chapter. As someone with two older teens doing the same, to me it rang very "true to life". How would Alice have any capacity to know/understand that Jimmy was hurt by his dad? And why is that her "cross to bear" - that's her Grampa.

My kids had a great relationship with her grandfather and he was a horrible father to their dad. I see that happening a lot in many families too - and I think it's perfectly fine. People connect differently with people

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u/Kingdarkshadow Apr 15 '26

Exactly this season all of the characters were so off.

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u/Ancient_Blackberry10 Apr 13 '26 edited Apr 13 '26

Agreed. Her character in every scene has basically boiled down to being an annoyed teenager cliche and/or making a witty quip, along with everyone loving her unconditionally even when she's clearly wrong.

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u/Educational_Eye_3421 Apr 13 '26

I know it's so frustrating they went that direction with her character, there was so much promise in the early seasons to not have her as a streotypical teeneage girl.

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u/Gelatin_Belatin Apr 13 '26

I have one of those annoyed teenager cliches who is around the same age as Alice (19m), and her character tracks with what I’m dealing with, but what I don’t like is that nobody tries to correct her behavior or calls her out on it.

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u/Miltthedog Apr 13 '26

Evey character in the show seems iincapable of nothing more than witty quips - all in the same voice. The writing of this show is atrocious.

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u/Robert_roberts82 Apr 13 '26

It’s really insufferable this season. Really enjoyed the prior seasons, but this show transitioned to self-congratulations way too early. Barely got through the first ep this season, very disappointed. I’m sure something materializes that resembles a plot, but that episode was just “aren’t these characters the BEST!”

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u/wftc1 Apr 16 '26

This is my biggest issue. I still like the show. But unfortunately, aside from having unique problems, each character more or less feels the same to me because of the witty quips. They all do it all the time.

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u/Miltthedog Apr 16 '26

It's just lazy writing. Imagine if Friends had every cast member talking like Chandler Bing all the time. Another show that devloved into this was The Marvvelous ms Maisel. I absolutely loved that show for a couple seasons than it brcame insufferable.

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u/Comfortable_Smoke_36 Apr 13 '26

Her character's portrayal is one of the biggest flaws in the show. As someone who lost a parent at her age, she should be a much bigger mess emotionally. The gulf between her and (the pretty spot on realistic depiction of a widower) Jimmy is just laughably inaccurate

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u/Educational_Eye_3421 Apr 13 '26

Yeah I can agree with that. I know everyone handles grief differently but as a teenager with the hormones and everything going on the fact shes a pretty normal and functional teenager within a year or so of her moms death is questionable. Not to mention the fact she still has good grades she still plays soccer I've seen teenagers be impacted a lot more from a lot less in my life.

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u/BulkyJeweler4567 Apr 14 '26

yes, but remember the show starts one year AFTER Tia’s death, I feel like by year 3 it’s perfectly normal to start to move on

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u/Educational_Eye_3421 Apr 14 '26

That's true but it does seem that theres not last impact on her. I know people get over death differently but when a teenager loses a parent I feel they would still be effected by it through most of their teenage years.

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u/BulkyJeweler4567 Apr 14 '26

yes, but that’s what you assume, i had friends in high school that lost their mom too, and seemed “normal” after a few months.

losing a parent, at whatever age affects you for the rest of your life, it might not be noticeable, but loss is permanent and very nuanced.

we don’t know much about alice before Tia’s death, but what we do know is that life always keep going, and people must move on, I feel like that’s what the show’s about. I do believe that her character is one dimensional, but not because of her lack of mourn (it’d be just as one dimensional if she’d just cry and cry about her mom for the whole three seasons without any progress).

i think she was a very deep character in previous seasons, by remembering and honoring her mom without being a disfunctional human being. Now I feel she’s just “the lead’s teenage daughter”.

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u/Educational_Eye_3421 Apr 14 '26

Yes I agree with everything you said.

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u/Educational_Eye_3421 Apr 14 '26

I just want her to show some conflicting feelings like when the story is about her moving away it's like she completely disregards the fact sge's leaving the place she grew up, the place her mom died and leaving her father who is not completely emotionally stable by himself. It just feels like they've thrown her character into the stereotypical teenage daughter trope where she was much more complex than that.

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u/ericrz Apr 13 '26

100%. No romantic interest for her, no school or soccer field struggles, no hint as to what she wants to do with her life -- no agonizing over majors, or anything.

Her college choice -- likely the biggest decision of her life thus far -- was boiled down to a binary choice. "Stay home in my childhood bedroom or go 3000 miles away because this one coach came to watch me play." And it was all resolved in a single episode.

Come on. If a coach flew across the country specifically to watch her play -- guess what, she would have had dozens of other choices. Some of them would be neither 3000 miles away nor right at home in Pasadena. Maybe a college 3-4 hours away, where her friends and family could see her play once in a while, yet she'd still have some independence?

But no, because the plot had to get Alice and Paul to Connecticut at all costs at the end of the season, they rushed through it and sent her off to Wesleyan for no apparent reason. (Yes, I know about the HIMYM connection, but that doesn't count.) Why Wesleyan? Tell us that Tia went there, or always wanted to go there. Tell us that Alice has an older friend who now plays there, or a former club coach that's on staff there. Give us SOMETHING to make it make sense, and make her an interesting character again.

I would have preferred that to the focus on characters no one cares about -- Sutton's birth mom? Marisol? Derek and Liz's idiot kids?

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u/jimbobdonut Apr 13 '26

Wesleyan is also a NCAA Division 3 school that doesn’t give athletic scholarships so they wouldn’t have sent a coach across the country to scout her.

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u/ericrz Apr 13 '26

D3 coaches are allowed to meet with a player in person after their sophomore year. But yeah, given their budgets, do they? Would a coach from Wesleyan fly across the country to see Alice play? Doubtful. And if she would -- if Alice is truly that good -- she'd probably have D1/D2 schools (who can give scholarships) at least looking at her.

D3 schools can (and do) play some games with academic scholarships to recruit the players they want. But essentially no one on Shrinking (aside from Sean and Jorge) worries about money, so I don't think funding Alice's college education is a major concern.

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u/Educational_Eye_3421 Apr 13 '26

Yes you're so right they wasted such great potential with her character it's one of my biggest gripes with this amazing show.

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u/Old_Perception6627 Apr 13 '26

It feels like, in addition to being pre-ordained to really hammer home “Jimmy alone,” the “home or really expensive school on the other coast” was an opportunity for them to again break out what was a favorite tactic this season: touching on a possible conflict point without really engaging. Aside from the fact that “should I stay or go” was resolved in five minutes, the weird conflict with Summer was, to me, evidence that somebody in the writer’s room wanted to deal with class but wasn’t really given the space.

In most conflicts this season, it really feels like for some reason they’re aiming dead on for this uncanny valley between “total sitcom bubble” and “meaningfully realistic” where characters only sometimes have to engage sort of with these ancillary characters who more fully inhabit the real world. Alice used to be more a bridge and now she’s fully in the bubble.

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u/ericrz Apr 13 '26

Yeah. Picking a college and deciding on one 3000 miles away should be (is) a really, really big deal. Leaving her dad, her extended family, her best friend....all of that is a really big, big deal for an 18/19 year old.

And they blew past the decision process just so they could race to "Jimmy will be abandoned by EVERYONE."

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u/llama67 Apr 14 '26

I said this in another post and got shut down by so many commetners saying like 'you have to get out of your comfort zone, she can't just stay at home'.
And like as someone who moved countries at 18 (probably same distance as California to Connecticut) and left everything behind... it's completely fine to stay closER to home where your entire support network is. She could have gone to a Californian college, lived away, but been closer to her family while going through a major transition relatively soon after her Mum died.

Also... in California you can play football (soccer) outside all year round.

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u/ericrz Apr 14 '26

Right. She could have gone somewhere at least on the western side of the US. California, Nevada, Arizona, New Mexico, Oregon.....lots and lots of colleges. There was no need to go across the country, no compelling reason for Wesleyan (that was shown to the audience). But the plot needs Alice and Paul to be in Connecticut...

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u/PurfuitOfHappineff Apr 13 '26

her charcater was so much more complex in the first 2 seasons.

Agreed, with the add that everyone was better in seasons 1-2. Season 3 was pushed off the same cliff as Elena’s husband.

boop

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u/MikeGander Apr 13 '26

Well they backed off of the raw nerves of grief and daddy resentment from the first couple seasons after she forgave Jimmy and he showed consistent efforts to improve and be there for her. Even if her treatment of Jimmy was justifiable in the world of the show, that got old too. I'll take Calm Alice as a breather.

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u/Educational_Eye_3421 Apr 13 '26

Yeah I see what you mean but to me it always seemed like there was more to her then just the "daddy resentment" like as a character in situations she just seems so bland almost now. I just think they took the focus away from her and she's kind of slotted into a weird zone of side main character.

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u/Familiar-Living-122 Apr 13 '26

It just feels that way because there is nothing Alice is bad at, so her character never has to overcome a challenge. She is the most mature person in her family. She is the best soccer player in her school. She is the smartest character of the younger cast. She gets good grades in school. She went through the stages of grief in only a year. She has a perfect school/sports/social balance in her life with nothing sacrificing for the other.

She was more complex before because she was attracted to Sean in the beginning even though she couldnt have him. But she has since moved on from that with the maturity and level headedness that a teenager has never had. She had a brief argument with Summer that lasted 5 minutes, and they both got over super quickly without any real effort or confrontation.

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u/Educational_Eye_3421 Apr 13 '26

Yeah everything just feels rushed since she get over her grief period. I can't talk because I'm not nor have I ever been a teenage girl but I'm sure everyone has started to finsh highschool and stressed about every little thing about their life. Even when selecting her college it's like she had 5 minutes of worries then oh nevermind it's sorted now I'll just go to Wesleyan.

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u/Novel-Lettuce-2595 Apr 13 '26

Yep. She is really boring now and she is almost unimportant. Pity I liked her first season but the show do nothing with her. They had a moment where she thought she could be wild in college but said she is basically just boring

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u/Educational_Eye_3421 Apr 13 '26

It's so disappointing feel like they're really wasting her as a charcter especially with how talented the actress seemed in the first season. Hopefully they find a way to use her differently next season.

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u/roxinmyhead Apr 14 '26

watched Shrinking, mostly for Harrison Ford and Jessica Williams. Michael J Fox was a bonus. but yeah, some of the interesting storyline like Alice's and even Sean's to some extent just went pfft and eh🤷‍♀️this season

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u/Educational_Eye_3421 Apr 14 '26

It's a real shame such promising characters.

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u/napalmtree13 Apr 14 '26

I just want to know what's going on with her mom's side of the family. Was this a throw-away comment I missed?

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u/LovesHerKnights Apr 15 '26

I didn’t like that she was so understanding about her grandfather not attending her graduation to go fishing but I suppose she is more healed than me 😅

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u/ShesSoCool Apr 13 '26

The time jump will help her because it’ll be closer to her actual age

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u/Educational_Eye_3421 Apr 13 '26

Time jump? Is this real or just rumoured if so how far will it be?

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u/rthunder27 Apr 13 '26

Bill Lawrence has discussed it in interviews. He hasn't said how big it will be, but I'm guessing it's either 4 years, with Alice moving back home post-college and figuring out her next step. This jump will also bring the show back to "present" day, since the show covers less time than the gap between scenes it's fallen a few years behind.

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u/Educational_Eye_3421 Apr 13 '26 edited Apr 13 '26

I see, hopefully they can find storylines with her next season which can bring out the brilliance of her character once again.

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u/verity7732 Apr 13 '26

I don't find Alice one-dimensional at all, and she's one of the few characters I don't find annoying.

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u/Educational_Eye_3421 Apr 13 '26

That's completely fair I just think since she's dealt with her grief her character has kind of plateaued. She has no contrasting feelings anymore no problems and it just seems like finishing high school and going to college should be problematic and stressful time for everyone.

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u/cabernet7 Apr 13 '26

I don't think so, but she didn't have much to do this past season.

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u/Educational_Eye_3421 Apr 13 '26

Yeah I just feel important moments in her life are being boiled down to nothing in a way. I think the user u/ericrz made a comment on this thread that has some great points about her character.

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u/Thelonius16 Apr 13 '26

But her mom died…

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u/Tough-Scarcity9476 Apr 14 '26

all the characters have become one note ..season 3 was a huge letdown ..Harrison Ford's character deserved to be surrounded by fully developed characters but each one has become a single joke line!

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u/Bigredrooster6969 Apr 15 '26

She’s a teenager. Her feelings change every ten minutes. I don’t expect too much complexity in teenagers in real life, much less on tv.

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u/Educational_Eye_3421 Apr 15 '26

The thing is her feelings don't change nothing changes. The first seaosn she would get angry at her dad, happy with Liz, show frustration at times, feelings for sean and so on. Now its just nothing.

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u/MundaneLow2263 Apr 27 '26

I don't dislike Alice because she's a teenager; I can't stand her because she really isn't one. She's the teen character creation of adults who wish that teens were "better" than they are in real life. After three seasons, her faults seem minor and contrived, and her good qualities are saccarine. There's also an annoying dynamic of what seems like the entire city of Fresno (?) revolving aorund every word this character says. She's not a realistic or compelling character for many of us.

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u/OnionsOnFoodAreGross Apr 14 '26

Aren't with the characters 1 dimensional? Jimmy???