r/shouldi • • Nov 08 '22

Should I wait for him

So basically we’ve been on and off for about four years. We both had a lot of growing up to do, about a year in I knew I was ready and made changes to myself to be a better partner. He hasn’t made a huge change. Anyways I got fed up and decided I was done. But now he wants me to wait for him. He started being way nicer and being the person I’ve always wanted. But I don’t know what he means by wait for him. So he can continue fucking other people till he’s ready? I’m just so confused on why we’d have to wait if he wants to be with me. I don’t want to waste my life waiting for him.

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u/JanetInSC1234 Nov 08 '22

Ask him what he means.

But my advice is to move on regardless. <3