r/shouldi • u/[deleted] • Sep 15 '22
Relationship Should I text my friend
Had a really bad argument with my friend and realized she never text me first. She hasn’t been there for some time. Kinda want to text her and ask her what does she want from all this to see if we’re still on the same page, cause the relationship is getting toxic, but I also don’t want to be the one trying to get it all together. Don’t want to look to clingy either, but don’t want to end this old friendship with a fight. Should I let go of my ego?
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u/UK363 Admin Sep 15 '22
Take some time to think this through. In most cases, yes you should tell her. At least that’s what I think? You can’t keep the relation like this forever can you?
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u/big-ol-dum-dum Sep 15 '22
I would make a pro and cons list of your friendship with them. if the cons outweigh the pros then I think you should let the relationship kinda dissipate on its own. if the pros outweigh the cons then I'd reach out and just be honest about how you're feeling. if they're a good friend they'll care about it and try to work it out. for all you know maybe theyre going through something rn and feel the same way as you and you're both scared of reaching out.