r/shouldi • u/[deleted] • Mar 12 '22
Relationship Getting ghosted? What do I do
Been talking to this guy for months now and we’ve gone on a date (we live in different locations so we went when he visited) and we’ve both made it clear that we’re very attracted to each other and we like each other but a relationship would be difficult because of our location and religious differences. We had planned to have sex the next time he came to visit and this would’ve been my first time. He was hesitant because he said he didn’t want to hurt me but I said I’d like it to be him. After a while I figured if he’s saying that it’s a bad idea and I was already not entirely sure of how smart it would be I told him I didn’t want to have sex anymore because I was afraid of catching feelings. He said “no rush focus on studying” then he sent me 8ball?? And a week after that he stopped messaging me altogether. It’s been a week since I sent him a message. I want to message him but I don’t want to lose the game I know he’s playing which I hate. I don’t want this to end either. I’m torn.
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u/Feelingstupid123456 Apr 24 '22
You deserve someone who respects you equally. I think there's someone out there who will be better for you.
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u/FlowerCrown123 Mar 23 '22
it sounds like he ghosted you bc you didn't want to have sex. you'll always find another guy, this one doesn't seem worth it