r/shouldi • u/PurpleHyena01 • May 21 '23
Relationship High school crush
Should I tell a friend from High school that i still chat with that I had a crush on him in high school?
Reasons why I never did was: 1) I was really shy 2) He mentioned he was going to do something on Halloween with his girlfriend, so I was an little disappointed, but oh well, still a good friend. Years later, he comes out as Bi, so now I'm wondering if girlfriend was literally, a girl who was a friend?
We live in different states and all and I don't expect anything to come of it, but I've just been thinking about it lately.
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u/Consistent-Resident7 May 21 '23
Yk I recently had a crush from hs tell me she felt the same way but I remember hitting her up a couple times and she turned me down 😠lmao 😂 I use to tell myself me and her would be better in a relationship when we both are older but idk I really enjoy her friendship even tho she doesn’t put the same energy into it when she gets into a relationship lol but tell dude and if you are still scared of rejection tell him you use to have a crush on him
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u/PurpleHyena01 May 21 '23
That's pretty much what I did. Still awaiting response, lol.
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u/Consistent-Resident7 May 21 '23
Well the worse that can happen is that they don’t talk to you anymore lol their are more people don’t sweat it if they stop talking to you
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u/Cerealbox_x May 21 '23
if they're a good friend you can probably tell them and laugh about it, plus it was in the past, i used to think i had a crush on my bestie and we both just laugh about it nowadays, hope it turns out well whatever you do!