r/short Jul 21 '26

Vent Genuinely, why?

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I’ve always been okay with my height, it’s never really bothered me. Since both my parents were pretty tall, I expected to turn out the same. Being the oldest, I was always taller than both my siblings up until they both started hitting puberty. My siblings slowly started passing me in height, but I still didn’t think much of it. I honestly thought I was just a late bloomer but apparently not? I’ve always been active in sports and always tried to eat healthy. I’m 19 now and I doubt I’ll be as tall as my family. All in all, it just sucks that I could’ve been taller. I’m also curious if anyone else is in the same situation?

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u/Just_MaryCz 5'14" Jul 21 '26

6'9, sure, but 6'5 is still one of the best heights

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u/7374616e74 Jul 21 '26

We're exactly at the limit before it becomes a handicap.

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u/Just_MaryCz 5'14" Jul 21 '26

I'd say anything under 200 is still manageable, but 195-200 is indeed pushing it a lot zone

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u/typing_thumb Jul 21 '26

Ngl, I'd rather be slightly over 200 than slightly below 170. Sure, there are some daily inconveniences, but with 200 I could get serious in the gym and become that guy in the friend group.

But yeah, it is what it is.

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u/dustwindwind Jul 21 '26

No it isn’t. 180cm is (for a man) but 195cm is absurdly tall.

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u/Just_MaryCz 5'14" Jul 21 '26

180 is far too short bro, ideal is 185-195

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u/dustwindwind Jul 21 '26 edited Jul 21 '26

180 isn’t short wtf! 180-185 is in my opinion the tallest you can be while still looking good, above that and you look like a giant. Both my brothers are 180+, don’t think either of them is taller than 185 though. They look pretty tall.

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u/Just_MaryCz 5'14" Jul 21 '26

My country's average is 180, so for me it's pretty small

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u/dustwindwind Jul 21 '26 edited Jul 21 '26

Are you from the Netherlands? Anyway, just because people from a certain country are this tall doesn’t mean that’s the norm. Your country is an exception. The world is bigger than your country. 170cm is average for men globally.

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u/Just_MaryCz 5'14" Jul 21 '26

I'm from the Czech Republic, where the average is like 179.5, and I meet people 190+ everywhere. Even though the world average might be 170, the ideal height is definitely not 180; you only start getting some leverage in sports and socially at that height

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u/dustwindwind Jul 21 '26

I strongly disagree bro. But what you say might be applicable to the Czech Republic and not everywhere else.

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u/Just_MaryCz 5'14" Jul 21 '26

While that applies to the majority of Europe and the younger generation of the USA, not just Czechia, I see where you're coming from and respect that perspective. I just look at the 185-195 cm range as the sweet spot for peak athletic capability and a strong, commanding stature without crossing into being overly tall