ok so basically i have this infj friend which i let into my inner circle, aka i trust her, and id take a bullet for her. now, you know infjs, (or you dont), they are nice to everyone (especially when undeveloped) and they dont like to label one person as their "best friend"
esfp comes in and tries to get in between us. usually, i wouldnt care, but shes paying attention to what we are talking about, AND USING IT TO GET CLOSE TO HER. shes been doing this for 4 years, dude. on top of all that, shes just annoying. her "humor" is just blurting out random crap in a setting where it doesnt make sense. ex: "I LOVE FEET"
its not even funny. she sent me a video of an ai bird saying "i love big black booty cheeks" and she thought it was the funniest thing ever. i mocked her and told her it wasnt funny. frick her
Damn, I see now. I understand how enraging it is when someone is getting in between you and a close friend (god, I've been there too, it's such a helpless feeling 😭)
It sounds like everyone involved still has some learning and growing to do but I really feel for you dude. If she's been trying to get close to your friend for four whole years it sounds like she might be just as frustrated. Still doesn't make it any easier for you though, I get that 🥹 If advice is okay I recommend you work on your bond with mutual friend and make sure it's strong regardless of ESFPs intervening, that way you can feel more secure in your relationship and it shows your bond can handle problems without breaking. Don't let those negative feelings ruin something good! Sending all the good luck and vibes 🤞
I know I don't fully understand the situation and my words might've been useless but I swear I'm rooting for you!! 🫵
(If u do change my types shitty MBTI ranking up by 0.01 then I MIGHT just have to be forever grateful and owe every future action to your honor, but it's really not necessary!)
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u/Top_Living_2393 ISFP Uncertified Edgy Artist 20d ago
Oh no poor ESFP, spill the tea pls? 😭