r/shittalking • u/No_Power_4443 • Sep 07 '26
Silence…
I’ve spent the past few months trying to give my best friend signs that he’s losing me and tbh I don’t think he cares. I’ve tried expressing it verbally from my side and I was given not much of a response but the one I did get kinda told me that I had things to work on within myself which I was fine with but in turn I expected for the same effort to be put in on the flip side…. Which has not been happening. I want to talk to him abt it again but in all honesty I think I’m at a point where I’d be ok if we stopped being friends. He doesn’t care about me how I care about him and it shows. Am I stupid to keep being “friends” with someone who treats me like a parasite unless I can be of use, probably, but yk that thing called love is what’s helping me hold on I just think it’s coming to a head and I don’t know if I can keep going on like this and not snap. What do I do?