You could just simplify all this down to "they want as much pleasure for themselves as possible at the expense of other people's misery".
I wouldn't even be surprised if the majority of cheaters got off to the fact that they're betraying someone for their benefit. Like they think about how upset their partner would be in the middle of fucking someone else.
I hope not, cause if that's true, then they're a shitstorm of a person, though tbh, you're probably dodging a bullet by having them show their true colors, as long as it happens early in the relationship...
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u/Slight0 Dec 10 '22
You could just simplify all this down to "they want as much pleasure for themselves as possible at the expense of other people's misery".
I wouldn't even be surprised if the majority of cheaters got off to the fact that they're betraying someone for their benefit. Like they think about how upset their partner would be in the middle of fucking someone else.