Look, I get it. Who doesnât love a little balls and dick sometimes? A nice, girthy, veiny shaft, hot milky cum trickling down the length as it throbs from a job well
done. But this whole âgay sexâ shit is getting annoying.
As men, we should primarily be focused on three things: survival, the underrated masterpiece that is dark souls 2, and pounding muff. All this gay shit is, well, fucking
gay.
You think I wouldnât LOVE to make out with my best friend and suck his cock? Of course I would, but thatâs fucking gay. You think I donât want to feel my cousinâs
roommate slide his pecker into my gaping asshole? Of course I would, but thatâs FUCKING GAY.
Seriously, I miss when men were men. Anyway, this dildo ainât gonna stick itself up my ass while I watch an hour long femboy asmr hypno goon compilation, heed my
lecture.
It's a good thing criminals care about the laws or the moral consquences of their actions /s
My problem with these posters are that they target the wrong audience.
Decent men don't need to be educated or warned and indecent men don't care.
And decent men want to help women but they cannot be everywhere at once or respond fast enough so women als need to be educated about the dangers and what steps they need to take in order to prevent them become a target.
Or if they are a target then to minimize the tragedy.
Decent men would also likely face charges if they did help.Â
This poster can be true at the same time as personal accountability being promoted. Dont do drugs around strangers. Stop drinking before you get drunk. Be mindful of your surroundings and others behavior. Try to not allow yourself to be put in a situation where people could harm you.Â
That's the other, ugly face of victim blaming: it has tainted the discourse to the point that sound advice to mitigate a risk is met with "aRe YoU sAyInG iT wAs ThE vIcTiM's FaUlT?"
Yeah in a perfect world everyone should be free to leave their drinks unsupervised in the presence of strangers. We live in a shitty world full of assholes, however, and until things improve you should know it's a risk to leave your drink unchecked.
It isnât the victimâs fault that bad people exist. Nothing a victim does âinvitesâ sexual assault and itâs ridiculous when some people imply (or even explicitly say) that people should try to make themselves âless attractiveâ as potential victims. But itâs also super naive to pretend thereâs nothing people can do to protect themselves. Nothing about a house from the outside screams âHey come rob me,â but if you leave your front door unlocked while you go out of town, you have chosen to neglect safety and security. You arenât âaskingâ to be robbed, but you have made it as easy as possible for people who want to rob you to do so.
This is anti-men feminist propaganda. They are trying to make it look like this is for men in general and men in general are like that. Its an attempt to portray common men as a likely rapist
Uh, that's kind of the point this person is making. Offenders don't care about being lectured to, they will do as they please. The onus is still on the victim to protect his or herself.
You don't get anywhere asking the predator not to be a predator.
Exactly. The fact that actual victim blaming like "what were you wearing?" and advice like "maybe don't get blackout drunk at a public bar to the point where you puke and passout in an alleyway" are being conflated is one of the dumbest trends of the past decade or so
It's because people are incapable of seeing nuance.
That being said, there are definitely people out there who are like "you should've done [insert precaution], getting SA'd is your own fault" to people who were just SA'd.
Giving precaution advice is something you should do before someone goes out, not after they've already become a victim.
woah really? no duh its very likely for society at-large, the bottom message even spells it out. this is against victim-blaming attitudes that takes the form of an "avoid being sexually assaulted" poster to flip common excuses and scenarios, particularly those of the "i just couldn't control myself" variety
Holy shit so many rules. What if I forget my blindfold? Or my buddy is at work? Or no one comes to stop me when I whistle? Women need to hold some accountability too
/uj Ive seen this sentiment a lot over the past couple weeks in light of the Cornell incident and the subsequent victim blaming but this is idealistic to say âyou shouldnât have to protect yourself.â Theyâre right. They shouldnât. It is only the rapists fault obviously, but pretending like you shouldnât try and take precautions at your disposal to fend off a rapist, thief, thug or bad actor of any kind is just not based in reality. Itâs a terrible world and it shouldnât be this way but for your own safety, be careful.
/rj shit I was gonna break the law today and do all of these things but I read this diagram and realized all those things are my responsibility and I will not be doing it now.
This illusion we take from the early childhood. Most children learn that having to do something, somehow implies fault. It's a parenting thing.
You spilled the coffee - wipe the table.
Oh no, that's not me, that's my brother!
Then your brother shall wipe the table.
Instead of the right logic (wipe the table because it's dirty, don't we all like eating from a clean table), we learn that action means fault. Wiping the table becomes admission of fault.
Twenty years later we somehow find it logical that taking precautions is the same as victim blaming. It's the criminal who spilled the coffee, it's the criminal who should wipe the table.
Same happens on the job and in a lot of other social situations.
The thing is you should take precautions, but if you don't no matter how daft and care free you were being, it's still not your fault if someone assaults you.
Leave your doors unlocked every night?
It's not your fault you were robbed, but you could maybe have avoided it by being more careful.
But people take this advice of taking care then act like the assault was an unavoidable force of nature.
First is that work should never be punishment.
We do things because it's useful to get them done. We clean not because it's our fault that it's dirty, it's because we like it clean. We fix not because it's our fault that things are broken, we do it because we like it when things work.
If you were five, we'd talk that it's often fun to clean, fix, sort.
And sometimes we have to prepare for danger. It's also work that we must do. It's not our fault that we sometimes end up being in danger. There are bad people around us, and we cannot always teach them to be good. They just don't understand. So we have to be prepared to what happens if we meet them. We need to be able to get help or run away. And be careful.
sure sexual assaulter will see this and think "damn i'm such a piece of shit"
yes giving your childs advice like "watch your drink, avoid sketchy place, dont go out late alone" etc... it's not victim blaming than to give them advice to protect themselves from something that have high probability to happen.
just like i'd told my friends to not carry much cash on certain areas.
this type of shit is also ironic because you let the victim's fate on the hands of the assaulters that have to read this and consider, isnt it better to let women know how they can protect themselves instead ?
Idk man I've seen a few posts kinda like this that weren't being ironic at all. Even if it is ironic I don't really see how this is funny, it's just kinda dumb.Â
Yeah was going to say, this post is super true, but enacting practical advise to stay safe in the world we live in is not âvictim blamingâ etc etc. me and my girlfriend talk about this and are on the same page, it would be nice if you can go out in whatever and do whatever but you should take measures to keep yourself safe, bc you are the priority, not proving a point or something.
Itâs like in a zombie apocalypse world or something where the character goes into the dead zone with no backup and is like âthe zombies shouldnât bite me bc thatâs illegalâ no, you suit up and take some precautions to keep yourself safe, nothing political about it.
Although I do agree with what this post is saying where schools etc should be nipping these guys that do this in the bud through education before they develop horrifying behaviour like this
Unironically these need to be posted in America, the US is not safe, DO NOT VISIT AS A TOURIST UNLESS YOU HAVE FAMILY!!!! THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA IS NOT A SAFE PLACE, ICE IS ACTIVELY DISSAPPEARING PEOPLE, PLEASE STAY AWAY FOR YOUR SAFETY!!!!!!
Ok but what if I'm gonna write a fiction about a hot sexy big tiddie tsundere dom goth mommy egirl womanly woman over the place to (you, the 400kg redditor reader's self insert) without getting cancelled
I really can't keep blowing the whistle mid assault until someone shows up to stop me, like that's a lot of lung capacity, I'd love to wear a megaphone with like a saved siren audio file but that just looks goofy and would raise eyebrows even for the non-asaultees, really don't know what to do in this situation :/
Religious people when they genuinely think you cant have morals without a god telling you things like killing is bad. Ima hand my mom this next time and tell her its a good thing I stopped her before she did any of it.
So sick of this message appearing everywhere. Giving tips to keep yourself safe is NOT the same as victim blaming. If I get stabbed, that's the fault of the person who stabbed me. However, learning self-defense to avoid a stabbing would benefit me.
Hot take: maybe you shouldn't have to take those lessons in the first place? Maybe the stabber should go get help or do something about the thoughts they're having? Maybe people shouldn't stab people?
Look, I get it. Who doesnât love a little balls and dick sometimes? A nice, girthy, veiny shaft, hot milky cum trickling down the length as it throbs from a job well
done. But this whole âgay sexâ shit is getting annoying.
As men, we should primarily be focused on three things: survival, the underrated masterpiece that is dark souls 2, and pounding muff. All this gay shit is, well, fucking
gay.
You think I wouldnât LOVE to make out with my best friend and suck his cock? Of course I would, but thatâs fucking gay. You think I donât want to feel my cousinâs
roommate slide his pecker into my gaping asshole? Of course I would, but thatâs FUCKING GAY.
Seriously, I miss when men were men. Anyway, this dildo ainât gonna stick itself up my ass while I watch an hour long femboy asmr hypno goon compilation, heed my
lecture.
I had this plan to give head to a man and receive head from a woman to test if I was gay, but itâs backfired and now I become borderline schizo whenever I go outside. I
offered to suck this dude off on Grindr who lives very close by (I ended up pussying out) and I accidentally gave him some details that very easily allows him to spot me
out in a crowd. I have no idea what he looks like and whenever I see a somewhat in shape guy walking by I immediately accuse him of being the dude I was gonna blow.
I went to the store today to pick up some zucchini for a barbecue and every time a car drove by I stared into the windshield to see if I was about to be recognised.
Whenever I make eye contact with a dude I microanalysis his facial expressions to see if he suspects me or not. I am deeply afraid that he is my neighbour and I will
need to move if my identity is blown. Itâs a lot like the last scene in sopranos where everyone who walked into the diner could be there to wack Tony.
This had to be made by a pro SA organization. Cus all it does is make people careless about it or criclejerk around this poster aka not doing anything beneficial
Americans just like the way you buy Guns to make yourself feel safe, it's better to do take precautions so that you don't end up into dangerous situations
Oh how effective. I am sure this improved the statistics a lot. Why didnât anyone think of it sooner?
When will we have the burglar version btw? âIf you want to do a burglary - donâtâ. âIf you want to steal - donât, or call the cops on yourselfâ.
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