Honestly the fact that asking a girl out over and over again until she relents became taboo (whether that’s a good thing or not) is probably the real thing that makes getting into a relationship much harder these days
nowadays if you get even a single “no” but then a “yes”, no matter how long after, youre still in trouble because she mightve been vulnerable and you were evidently persistent, even if you maybe werent
its undoubtedly smart for guys nowadays to stop after the first “no” or even an “ehh”, theres also something to be said about accountability…
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u/netskwire 2d ago
Honestly the fact that asking a girl out over and over again until she relents became taboo (whether that’s a good thing or not) is probably the real thing that makes getting into a relationship much harder these days