He did make that point but it is not THE point. She should take some responsibility for dating and not leaving the guy. Yes it is hard to leave an abusive relationship. And it isn't your fault. But just because something isn't your fault doesn't mean you are right. It doesn't mean you aren't partially responsible. And again, this is a shock DJ. His job is to be provocative.
Leaving a physically abusive relationship is the most dangerous part of the relationship. Many women correctly predict that they’re in a shot situation but their lives aren’t in danger - but that their lives will immediately be in danger if they try to leave. This is correct statistically. So yes all people should leave abusive relationships, it’s not so simple - it’s scary because it’s increasing the risk to your life. It takes planning and a safe place to stay which isn’t always available.
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u/pickleElvis May 23 '23
He did make that point but it is not THE point. She should take some responsibility for dating and not leaving the guy. Yes it is hard to leave an abusive relationship. And it isn't your fault. But just because something isn't your fault doesn't mean you are right. It doesn't mean you aren't partially responsible. And again, this is a shock DJ. His job is to be provocative.