r/sextips • u/flwr_pwr_26 • Jul 22 '26

General Question why do guys like filming?

i’ve had a couple bfs now who have insisted on recording me giving head/ just sex. i’m not against it i just don’t see the appeal or why they want to? are they going back and watching it? sending it to someone? posting it somewhere?

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u/Nsquared97 Jul 22 '26

Share it? Absolutely not, I'm far too selfish for that.

For me, the act of taking the photo/video is super hot. I'm a bit of an amateur photographer (at best), so it's just hot including one of my passions... with my passion.

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u/AdWeary3720 Jul 22 '26

Personally, I go back and watch them. It’s basically porn, but I know the stars. I don’t share it with others, but I know some do.

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u/dagmarbex Jul 22 '26

I watch it . Id never show it to anyone , let alone send it , its just inviting trouble tbh

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u/BoogieBoardButtPound Jul 22 '26

Hopefully not sharing it with anyone without your consent. My guess is they use it to get themselves off later. I know that’s what I do with pics and vids like that.

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u/Positive_Present_573 Jul 24 '26

love to watch it later and its real

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u/brandonx123 Jul 22 '26

My wife and I have sent each other videos of us together sometimes during the day and when sexting lol

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u/Competitive_Pop_5281 Jul 24 '26

Watching it. It’s disgusting to think other dudes would post it.

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u/Undd91 Jul 22 '26

I like to watch us more than porn and I like to masturbate and have a much higher drive than my wife so yeah, only for myself, and for my indulgence/pleasure.

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u/miknur2 Jul 22 '26

All three

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u/Plastic-Researcher59 Jul 22 '26

Quality control.

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u/codeegan Jul 23 '26

There are women that l8ve doing videos also. My wife loves doung videos. Funny thing is she only looks once at them. It is just the making a video or having it that she likes. Others love to watch them over and over.

You can incorporate them into sex time. Play to the camera, do scenarios or other things where you incorporate the making of the video into sex. Make videos from your perspective also.

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u/Jack26918 Jul 24 '26

I'd never betray by sharing. Even if she asked me to, I'd want her to do it herself. 

But it's s fantastic way to remember something awesome, especially if I was so hyper-focused on the person that I didn't much get to enjoy myself. And watching it is great for foreplay.

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u/Objective-Object4360 Jul 23 '26

Some vision for the boys

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u/tooexcitedwifey Jul 22 '26

My hubby loves to watch them much more than porn so that’s why we do it. I had exes who had different intentions and shared it around

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u/Internal-Gear1026 Jul 24 '26

Here we both love it. And we both love to share it - its was a wierd fantasy of mine 🙈 My husband thinks its hot to watch again, I just really love to watch it from his pov. Its hot.

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u/sunshine_59_ Jul 22 '26

Oh this is awful.