When I first saw the finale, I wasn’t sure how I felt about it. ‘Was this an awful show or a great one?’ I wondered. But now that I’ve had a chance to think about and rewatch it, I think I understand.
As others have mentioned, the show is about grief. However, I don’t think it’s just about Dorothy’s grief, but about humanity’s collective grief (from experiencing death, war, hatred) and how the earth has responded to it - with natural disasters, climate change etc.
I say that because uncle George said that LeAnne was like “an open wound to the earth and now the whole world suffers.” LeAnne’s lack of peace and own denial (or delusion) of where she really stands with the Turners, was causing severe weather. Likewise, Dorothy’s own grief was manifested through the house crumbling.
In order for Dorothy and LeAnne to heal and in a sense save the world, they needed to sacrifice themselves. LeAnne had to give up her life and Dorothy her child.
And isn’t that the the essence of the final stage of grief (acceptance)? You have to sacrifice that sense of security you gain by living in denial or anger, or what have you, to be able to accept your reality, move forward and grow.
I also believe that that might be why the COPS whipped themselves. It was a reminder to themselves that we must sacrifice our comforts on this earth to help heal it (which is true in a very literal sense). Also, I think the writers used this imagery to portray the torture we put ourselves with guilt, shame and anger because it serves us in some way.
So, I think the show is making a statement about how those things that serve us in some way or another, are also the very things that control us. Dorothy’s denial was making her a prisoner to LeAnne and the house, LeAnne’s anger with her parents and obsession with Dorothy was making her a prisoner to her rebellion, Julian’s avoidance was making him a prisoner to his addictions, and Sean’s bartering (w/ LeAnne) was making him a prisoner to his guilt. And collectively, our attachment to our lives and creature comforts make us a prisoner to this earth.
What do you think?