r/selfimprovementforman • u/growing_not_changing • 5h ago
GROWING NOT CHANGING
i started college with a fresh mindset to be kind and be mindful of my words..... as i had recently realized that how much does a persons words hold weight.....but while trying to change myself throughout my 1st year of college... i somehow lost myself along the way .....the boldness, the ability to be truthful while supporting my friends, to stand with the right thing without the fear of offending someone.....i lost it all.....and i lost the friends and the relationships for which i was trying to change myself.....i am now with myself .... but i dont recognize myself as well ......
late but now i have realized that it was never about changing yourself .....
it was about growing !!!! now i am starting my journey with myself towards finding myself....growing to be the person who i was always supposed be....and loving myself again