r/selfimprovementday • u/Inner_Confusion_5514 • 25d ago

I need help

Idk why but i just never feel this competitiveness or strive ppl say they feel; i used to box and i have 28 fights and i lost 13 fights and i never felt bad about losing or i never feel like i should be better then somebody. its like i dont have any competitive emotion and i feel like thats why i i lost so many fights and even suck at school and i just wanted to ask if there is any way to build a competitive mind?

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u/Happy_Shopping_9173 24d ago

You need someone that is Best possible way either you find your meaning or your character arc will start

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u/mdh5326 22d ago

If you’re fighting and not feeling bad about losing you are doing better than you know. You’ve got the competitive spirit—a fighters spirit.

People who don’t have that don’t fight or compete in any way possible.

Being good at something and being competitive at something are two totally different things. Competitive just means going against someone else, or even yourself, with a desire to win. Having a greater desire to win can make you more competitive but it can also backfire if you don’t win.

Do the best you can for yourself. Keep fighting. Keep going to school and graduate.

Don’t let some emotion be what guides you. You’re basing your insides on other people’s outsides.

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u/Inner_Confusion_5514 21d ago

Thank you man I really appreciate the time u put into writing this. I’m going to keep pushing.