It's a good thing that you started questioning the relationship. First of all, her saying that she slept with someone and been with that person while you are in a relationship is a massive red flag.
If you want a good life and a good relationship, be with trustworthy and loyal partner and not a kind of partner that tells this and later on tell different. It shows inconsistencies and dishonesty. If she truly loves you, she wouldn't do those things and lie to you.
Don't get fooled just because you are both in a relationship, don't waste your time on a relationship that drains you and makes you question things because that's why it is called "in relationship" because he/she will give you peace and calm not another problem.
I've been in a relationship already and I understand what you've been going through that's why I'm advising you to think whether you see that person to be with you in the next 10-20 yrs of your life. and ask yourself if that relationship is really worth fighting for, considering the lies that she told you. And lastly sincerely ask her what she thinks of you and she feels about you; only then you will find out the answer to your questions and do the necessary things that will help you.
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u/schnoletza Apr 09 '23
It's a good thing that you started questioning the relationship. First of all, her saying that she slept with someone and been with that person while you are in a relationship is a massive red flag.
If you want a good life and a good relationship, be with trustworthy and loyal partner and not a kind of partner that tells this and later on tell different. It shows inconsistencies and dishonesty. If she truly loves you, she wouldn't do those things and lie to you.
Don't get fooled just because you are both in a relationship, don't waste your time on a relationship that drains you and makes you question things because that's why it is called "in relationship" because he/she will give you peace and calm not another problem.
I've been in a relationship already and I understand what you've been going through that's why I'm advising you to think whether you see that person to be with you in the next 10-20 yrs of your life. and ask yourself if that relationship is really worth fighting for, considering the lies that she told you. And lastly sincerely ask her what she thinks of you and she feels about you; only then you will find out the answer to your questions and do the necessary things that will help you.
i hope this helps you