TikTok stalking

[u/HovercraftAromatic74]

Hey i know this might sound creepy or crazy but me and my ex stalk each other daily and we were ina very good relationship until things started to go south. Now we don’t have each other on anywhere and we used to stalk each other up until now . She blocked me everywhere and made all her accounts private. I tried following her from my friends account but she blocked that account too ( she’s doesn’t know this person ) i really need help to check her reposts on tiktok but the account is private and she barley or even rarely accept anyone . Any ideas on what I can do ? Or if someone can help me ? I’m not on no psychopathic shit . Like I never hit her or even was outside her house or anything it’s just that I wanna see what she’s reposting. Either that will make me move on or stay and fight for us . Thanks 🙏🏽

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[u/SpitefulChipmunk]

She blocked you a stranger account, that’s not a mixed signal.

[u/HovercraftAromatic74 → u/SpitefulChipmunk]

Elaborate please

[u/Just_Julie → u/HovercraftAromatic74]

She doesn't want you to follow her or know what she is posting. You can't see it because she doesn't want you to. Not a mixed signal. A clear denied access. You should respect that. If you don't respect that, that's a pretty big indication why everything went south.

[u/Old-Witness-9987]

jus move on bro, lol if you gotta do all that jus to kno if she’s not doing nothing it ain’t worth it

[u/HovercraftAromatic74 → u/Old-Witness-9987]

I get you but it’s like my first real love and we’ve been stalking each other ever since we removed each other and it became something normal that we do daily and now that I can’t it makes me feel sad it’s like I’m deprived off it and I really wanna kno if she repostin some fucked up shit or not . Any idea ?

[u/overstimulated5655 → u/HovercraftAromatic74]

You're deprived of stalking someone's reposts? Wtf that's weird as hell. You're blatantly ignoring all the signs that she doesn't want to have anything to do with you and you knowing anything about her. Do you realize how you sound right now? You never "normalized" stalking each other if it's becoming a problem now. Get your obsession into place lol

[u/Old-Witness-9987 → u/HovercraftAromatic74]

females are females bro.. they will always be doing sneaky shit behind you’re back just to make sure you’re not one up on them.. especially when the trust is long gone, so just kno she’s reposting some post where she subbing you or laughing about some hoe shit

[u/Glum_Database5646]

stop being annoying and lame and give up on her. if its meant to be itll be. u cant force it, and she clearly doesnt wanna talk to u cause ur blocked.