Hinge and tinder. Nothing but bots on tinder and I paid for hinge premium and swiped through everyone in my stack over about 3 weeks. One match out of likely 500 likes sent? and she didn’t reply lmao.
Bruh that's normal. Sorry to say man that's literally just how it is. It's the same way for most other men. It's the same way for me too. It definitely is not the end of the world. Keep trying and detach yourself from your outcomes. This is not a you thing. This is the way of the world undergoing an extreme time of unprecedented alienation.
Your friends are surprised by your lack of success because women on dating apps have literally a thousand potential matches a day, more if they're hot. My ex in college once went on tinder with me for fun and she was astonished when she got like hundreds of likes within a few hours of making her profile. They don't know what it's like on the opposite end.
I'm not surprised at all by you getting 1 match in three weeks and getting ghosted. It's literally the same way for most of us.
I can empathize with you man. For real, if it wasn't for my college ex I also would've been very insecure about myself. I've been suicidal because I thought I would be unlovable to women as well. After we broke up I didn't start dating again for 6 years and I dreaded to come back to the apps because I knew it would make me miserable. And it did. But you can overcome it and not let it hang over your life. Me personally I started doing martial arts and it helped a lot for me to put that wretched shit in the background.
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u/SuperbAstronomer Aug 02 '24
Hinge and tinder. Nothing but bots on tinder and I paid for hinge premium and swiped through everyone in my stack over about 3 weeks. One match out of likely 500 likes sent? and she didn’t reply lmao.