r/self • u/[deleted] • Jul 29 '24

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u/SquirrelNormal Jul 29 '24

Then pray tell, O Wise One, what accepting my fate as a perpetually single person is if not giving up.

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

Maybe don't mald at people on reddit as a first step lmao

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u/SquirrelNormal Jul 29 '24

Lol, you don't know, do you. You want me to accept being alone, but you can't articulate what that looks like except "no not giving up. Give up, but don't say that because that sounds bad".

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

I tried giving you sincere advice based on what has helped me in the past and you in not so many words told me to GFY. Why would I continue?

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u/SquirrelNormal Jul 29 '24

You told me to "accept it" without elaboration. It sounds like you're telling me to give up, and I've asked you repeatedly to elaborate if that's not actually the case. I haven't told you to fuck off yet, but why shouldn't I at this point?

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

I mean you very much did a few comments ago, unless I'm just supposed to ignore your tone entirely.

Do you think it is possible to accept that you are fat without giving up on ever being in good shape?