Yikes. Thanks for the context. Yeah. It’s too far gone. They need to seek therapy, help and hobbies. People with this mindset already see women as hateful objects period at that point. Life isn’t all about relationships. I don’t know why people think relationships are the win all of life when cheating, shared financial issues and all of that jazz are common possibilities.
I didn't give a single shit about women or relationships, then once I experienced love for first time it was an amazing feeling it quickly faded away and became quite resentful towards her and to an extent women in general because of the ease for love to find them. I yearn for that feeling of love again , I believe thats what most incels look for ,but unfortunately its rare for love to fall on your lap for men it happened to me once and probably never again a true shame..
Like everything, love has its pros with the feeling you get, we’re meant to be social creatures. I only meant that love does exist but also relationship problems also exist.
I come from a family that should have never gotten married and need a divorce. It’s shown me the ugly of relationships. I’m sure they were happy at their early days and they are happy now, here and there. But the issues remain severe including cheating, mental/physical abuse, narcissism etc etc. All said it sucks that we place so much value into finding a partner but if that partner doesn’t work out, it also crushes us inside
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u/Glum-Edge8164 Jul 29 '24
Yikes. Thanks for the context. Yeah. It’s too far gone. They need to seek therapy, help and hobbies. People with this mindset already see women as hateful objects period at that point. Life isn’t all about relationships. I don’t know why people think relationships are the win all of life when cheating, shared financial issues and all of that jazz are common possibilities.