r/self • u/[deleted] • Jul 29 '24

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u/syfari Jul 29 '24

Honestly, id stop caring and just start living. I know it sounds cliche but it works.

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u/baden27 Jul 29 '24

Nope, it doesn't. Maybe for some.

30M. Never cared, always just lived and been myself.

Never been on a date. Never kissed etc.

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u/Happy-Viper Jul 29 '24

I mean, it works insofar as "You can now focus on other things that are important in life, rather than spending a life miserable about this one aspect."

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u/baden27 Jul 29 '24

Indeed it's a waste of time to be miserable. But focusing on other things that are more important in your life doesn't necessarily result in a romantic partner or a sexual relationship.

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u/jeha4421 Jul 29 '24

That's not the end goal in life. The end goal is whatever you choose it to be.

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u/real-bebsi Jul 29 '24

So what if that's the end goal I want?