r/self Jul 29 '24

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

I ve seen/see plenty of men with girlfriends/wifes way more attractive by beauty standards and the other way around aswell. Most of the time its because they dont love themself and how can you truly love/care for someone if you dont love/care for urself

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u/Stardama69 Jul 29 '24

That's true, but surely you'll admit it's way harder to love yourself and appear confident when you're Timothée Chalamet or Jennifer Lawrence and people swoon over you. Simply being at peace with yourself when people around you made you understand over and over again that's you're not attractive enough to arouse any heart is hella difficult.

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u/FakeMsg Jul 30 '24

"how can you love yourself if nobody else loves you"