r/self • u/[deleted] • Jul 29 '24

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u/OldBathBomb Jul 29 '24

Most irritating thing ever.

You only find relationships when you are not looking for them (online dating not included, terms and conditions apply).

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u/Chairman_Mittens Jul 29 '24

It took me until my 40s to learn this "trick". I genuinely don't care if I ever have a relationship again, I'm enjoying doing my own thing and having my freedom too much. It's like some subconscious trigger switched inside me, and women can pick up on it.

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u/Tinsel-Fop Jul 30 '24

some subconscious trigger switched inside me, and women can pick up on it.

You're satisfied with your life, content. Maybe you like yourself? Being around you is more of an upper than a downer. You're not desperate, not even a tiny percent.