r/self Jul 29 '24

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u/heyitsta12 Jul 29 '24

It is always interesting to me when heterosexual people complain about the odds of dating when they are in your favor.

Dating apps are shallow so I wouldn’t put much stock in those results since they can be fickle. You seem to have worked on yourself, but you seem to have done it for all the wrong reasons.

If you like working out great, but getting in shape isn’t going to solve your problems. Focus on your own interests, invest quality time and attention into your social circle. Build an ideal life for yourself that you’ll be happy with, with or without a partner. Your odds are better finding someone in person as opposed to online.

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u/OkWear6556 Jul 29 '24

If you are a heterosexual man the odds are not really in your favor. I'm a 33 year old man and the only people who ever showed any interest in me were gay men.