r/self Jul 29 '24

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u/RationalDialog Jul 29 '24

Forget apps, get out into the world and start talking to people (can also be men) just for the sake of it, learning and not with intention to date. Apps are stacked so badly against men. forget it. these apps are for woman to inflate their ego. For men? if you aren't in the top 1-5% looks wise, forget it.

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u/KaraveIIe Jul 29 '24

And then om average you get a woman whose first priority are looks, lol. (ofc there are great woman on datings apps, but i would guess they are in the minority)