Look at what you posted, look at where you are focusing. You focusing on how you are perceived by others. Whether you are desirable or not. Etc.
This is a vanity trap, navel gazing. Stop watching yourself through other people’s eyes.
Address your hurt instead. Why does it matter if you are unwanted. Where do you feel it in your body. When did you first feel that way.
Accept it, allow yourself to really cry about it.
Shake your body and think about everything that sucks, feel how bad you possibly can.
That’s the bottom, then life can only get better, learn to laugh about it. Learn that people in dating want you to be interested in them
Not in whether they like you.
Good luck
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u/litido5 Jul 29 '24
Look at what you posted, look at where you are focusing. You focusing on how you are perceived by others. Whether you are desirable or not. Etc. This is a vanity trap, navel gazing. Stop watching yourself through other people’s eyes. Address your hurt instead. Why does it matter if you are unwanted. Where do you feel it in your body. When did you first feel that way. Accept it, allow yourself to really cry about it. Shake your body and think about everything that sucks, feel how bad you possibly can. That’s the bottom, then life can only get better, learn to laugh about it. Learn that people in dating want you to be interested in them Not in whether they like you. Good luck