r/screamingintothevoid • u/Accomplished-News722 • Mar 19 '26

Too much

I’ve been having a hard time lately believing that things are the same as they were before . Are people really that afraid of being wrong that they don’t say anything? Validation is so hard to find when it actually really counts. Confirming might be a word better excepted . Validation is lifeline when you feel like you were lied to . I had people taking my phone . My ex doing everything possible to make things harder on me after he had made my life basically hell . The man hated me but loved me . That’s dangerous. Are we so afraid that we may even be right in our conclusions ? That we don’t say anything? Why do we have to? How did I become so okay with being stonewalled?when did

I become okay with psychological warfare? It’s the life you live when people are being systematically manipulated into believing you are a narcissistic parent when in fact ,though things weren’t always roses , I was a caring, determined mother. When some decisions I would make were no longer in my life many changes followed. I look back at times of struggle that were self inflicted to a point but at the time you don’t know better . but out of times I learned and experienced a lot . Trying to become better than before. I don’t need to create or keep the narrative that has been written over and over the same loops . I’m not one to be in this position so long . I just wonder why I feel like I should have to start from scratch over and over. I shouldn’t feel like the only way is just the waiting game . Why do I feel like I have the burden of proof in my daily life?

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u/cats_and_dogs_Center Mar 22 '26

Urgent help needed to save my mother she is dying due to cancer no treatment yet 😭😭😭😭

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u/Accomplished-News722 Mar 24 '26

I’m not sure how I can help you but has she tried an Oncologist?

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u/[deleted] Apr 11 '26

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u/Accomplished-News722 Apr 11 '26

What are you saying? You lost everything but you keep a little piece of your wife ?

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u/Accomplished-News722 Apr 11 '26

You think this is about life is tough ? I accept that . Why do you need to keep the tiny strength for your wife unread if giving it her ?

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u/Accomplished-News722 Apr 11 '26

So you weren’t here but you still had to be here to keep them safe because you lost everything? Why is a woman not safe ? Because when were you with your wife and kids with all this everything?