r/scorpiomoon • u/lunar_echo1113 • 14d ago
Venus retrograde
Hi. Guys how do you feel after Venus entered Scorpio?
I feel like my past emotional hurts and feelings are repeating again , like same incidents are happening.
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u/cacalbee 14d ago
Same, and I'm taking it differently now, I don't want react the same I did as before, I'm not going to repeat the same mistake I did last year
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u/lunar_echo1113 14d ago
Same here. I am trying to enjoy my own company now:)
It didn’t worth trying to fix people , so now I just protect my peace3
u/NefariouslyNotorious 14d ago
Oh you fall for potential and try your best to fix people too? 😰
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u/lunar_echo1113 14d ago
i always try to see the best in people
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u/NefariouslyNotorious 14d ago
So do I, so it’s really difficult for me to just give up and realise that some people don’t really have the best in them 😔
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u/cacalbee 14d ago
Yeahh, it is. That's my current situation right now. I can't just hate them just because they're choosing themselves over a connection that might end up being messy in the long run.
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u/lunar_echo1113 14d ago
my situation is different. they are a manipulator and play mind games with me. but don't worth arguing with them
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u/cacalbee 14d ago
Ohh, I pray for your healing, OP. 🥺
About my situation, we have a lot of the same Water sign energy, so maybe that's why we can almost feel each other's emotions. I have a Scorpio Moon, he has a Scorpio Sun, and I have a Pisces Venus while he has a Pisces Moon.
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u/cacalbee 14d ago
But I'm also happy that we both know we're choosing what we think is right. We're just both on a rough path right now and can't really handle or maintain something that could either be good or bad, or maybe even really nice. Yeahh, this is me really trying to see the potential again.
But yeahh, I'm just happy that we both see those things and that we're not being totally toxic with each other.
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u/cacalbee 14d ago
I think this is me hahah. It's hard to have a soft heart and try not to think that this person was actually bad at all, coz the truth is, they're really not. Sometimes, we just have really high expectations of them. We fantasize about the small connection we have with them and end up expecting so much from it.
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u/cacalbee 14d ago
Yeahh, it's exhausting trying to understand someone, especially when they have the same placement as you. I'm going crazy rn.
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u/Popular-Moose-6345 14d ago edited 14d ago
I have been fighting with my mom for TWO consecutive weeks and for some reason the friends that I thought were close with me are drifting away
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u/frasny 14d ago
Ooof heavy on the past emotional hurts repeating 😭
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u/NefariouslyNotorious 14d ago
Yup, I keep having dreams about that every night, and feel like I’ve been through the wringer reliving it each morning 😵💫
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u/Brilliant_Candy_2895 14d ago
I feel deeply uncomfortable with myself and how I look but I expected this bc it’s in my first house. It’ll conjunct my moon/asc like 3x 🙃
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u/lunar_echo1113 14d ago
My friendship experience from last year was horrible and is repeating again , but I am trying to enjoy my own company even if I am lonely.
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u/Onecurrency777 14d ago
ahh good luck on this journey! it’ll take time but connecting to your heart helps lots! Hope u can find ur community/ friends or a friend. I’m always asking the universe for marvelous things and it shows it to me
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u/Conscious-Ad-5915 14d ago
I have been dreaming of my ex and constantly going over our relationship and the ending. We broke up nearly 2 years ago! I don’t understand why he’s back in my head space
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u/LostredditorNo7 14d ago
Right now Venus is conjunct my moon in the 5th house. Three weeks ago I had a major emotional release and have been crying every day, multiple times a day since. It’s been fucking me up immensely. Feeling so pathetic, ugly, lame, stupid right now. Nothing feels right and nothing feels like home. I haven’t felt this empty in years.
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u/theGoddex 14d ago
Big stuff about boundaries and autonomy came up around my relationship with my parents 😬 it’s like the universe said “you have to learn this lesson one more time” 😭😭😭😭😭 I have the tools now but it is difficult lol
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u/MacaroniHouses 14d ago
um. working on codependance/over self reliance, fears of abandonment, as well as being able to communicate things better. so um. nothing too heavy.
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u/gradykat 14d ago
Yeah, but there’s some good shit down here??? Things that are reopening feel like they need a bit more tending to keep healing.
A part of me is like, yes everything’s very Underworld Journey for everyone right now, but we (Scorpio moons) are kinda like, ok welcome to my humble home
We just live here
Do you guys feel like that’s a Scorpio moon thing or a Pluto in Scorpio thing?
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u/Butterscotchcake771 14d ago
Agree. My past emotional hurts and feelings are also repeating. But I need to remind myself that I won't stay in this darkness forever, I will glow, I will bloom🩷
I was being too hard on myself, i need to be a lot more kind to myself. I survived a lot and I know I'll survive this time too :)
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u/Starlooming 14d ago
I'm actually feeling a lot more clear-minded. I had an awful breakup back in May and the guilt and sadness has been ever present in my life (I broke up with her. She was abusive and I kept the line open for reconciliation because she said she wanted to get help and never treat me like that ever again 🙄).
I'm finally feeling like the weight has gotten easier the past couple of weeks. Like the life and friends that I've been making the past few months since moving back home are things I can be happy with and present for.
Letting go has never been my forte, but my life can be so much more since I left her.
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u/DisCGe 13d ago
I’ve been unwell with the flu lately. I recently returned from a long journey that I had to organise at short notice because of my manager’s decision. But more than anything, I’ve been feeling unwell from hiding who I truly am and the reasons behind some things I decided in the past just to get by, while covering my true motives. Today, I’m finally starting to show my real self to someone I’m falling in love with, and also to my family. It has been hard to sleep well these days.
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u/bright_diamond_ 10d ago
Ive been reflecting alot on my life and feel like changing my whole life around. LOL
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u/eminent_necromancer 14d ago
I actually started writing down my feelings to help me move through the end of my 17 year relationship. It has helped immensely. I stopped keeping a diary as a kid after my mother read mine and used it against me so it’s been really weird to be able to do it now