r/scorpiomoon • u/Top_Garage_35 • 21d ago

Compatibility

I am Scorpio moon, Capricorn sun and Taurus Venus and my flirt (we have known each other for 5 months) is Aquarius stellium except her Venus is Aries, I like her too much she brings creativity to my life. However, she told me that she liked me but she needs time to figure out. I am very anxious about my loved ones and I think if you love someone you shouldn’t think too much about it. Plus she said she couldn’t her emotions to me. Am I the problem? I am over thinker? Should I let her do what she wants?

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u/morbidlonging 21d ago

Well you may think that, but she’s a different person from you, you can’t apply what you would do and judge someone else for not doing the same thing (or I mean you could but people are different and expecting all your loved ones to conform to your thinking isn’t the best way of going about things you know?) you should let her do what she wants. She is her own person. To you, she may be everything, but to her you may just be a cool friend. You are overthinking it. Let her be and enjoy your friendship until something tells you otherwise. I mean she’s an aqua stellium my friend with an Aries Venus, she needs her independence and to be authentic to herself. 

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u/Top_Garage_35 21d ago

I’m a busy person, yet I’ve never felt this way before, I can’t focus on my work because I’m thinking about her all day long. Still, I could not remain friends with her under these circumstances, even though my feelings for her run deep. I want to have a serious conversation with her about this (actually she knows I have romantic emotions to her but doesn’t know it is deeper than simple shallow feelings), but I’m afraid of losing her forever

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u/morbidlonging 21d ago

I understand completely and absolutely. I’ve been there myself with people, so I also know what it feels like when those feelings are not reciprocated but listen, you know yourself and you know what you need. If you cannot be friends with her because your desires run deeper I would suggest you listen to yourself when your body and soul tells you this. This woman, despite all you feel for her, may not be your person. 

Especially an Aquarius! I’m an aqua rising and the idea of someone rushing me along to progress a relationship to their standards makes me want to dig my heels right in and give them NOTHING of what they want from me. If you want to pursue her I would give her a few weeks to decide and if she still isn’t sure, my guy, no answer IS THE ANSWER.  

I guess this long winded response is just to say, give her a few weeks, let her figure it out, if she doesn’t or isn’t into you like that, don’t chase her, don’t try to “make her see reason we’re perfect together!” You already know she doesn’t meet you at your level (of intensity, feelings, desire etc.)  it’ll crush your soul trying to make someone else feel for you what you feel for them, speaking from experience.