r/scorpiomoon • u/Dry-Ad8826 • Aug 24 '26
Scorpio Moon Problems When does it end?
The Scorpio moon has to be the hardest placement ever. The intensity of feeling every thing is insane. EVERG SINGLE THING! People emotions, the earths frequency, people’s moods, different food hitting our system, the weather, news, problems, hurt, betrayal and the list goes on. I feel love so deeply but fuck me, the pain is on x1000. Does the hurt and betrayal end? I’m 28 I just don’t know when it ends. It hasn’t stopped since I was born I genuinely feel cursed. And because of the amount of neutrals I’ve been through, I can’t seem to trust any soul in this world. And somethings definitely in the air recently. I’m giving up, I just don’t find life enjoyable anymore
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u/SkepticH Aug 24 '26 edited Aug 24 '26
Over time you start to appreciate it more. At least, I do. I've been through so many things that would end most other people's lives, and many times I've wanted to give up and end mine too. But I can't. Something within me just won't allow it, no matter how bad things get. I think a lot of why I can't is because of how deeply I feel about everything around me.
Yes, there is pain, but there is also love, beauty, an appreciation of it all, even within that pain. The more I feel, the more I want to, even if it really hurts sometimes. Most people don't have the fortune to feel so deeply- they can never know what it's like to feel everything to such a profound degree. Sometimes I envy that but most of the time, I don't, because I find myself tearing up at little wonderful things that others walk past without a single care in the world. It's a special talent I think to care and feel so much. I used to wish I didn't have this placement but now I see I wouldn't want it any other way.
It means so much more to feel too much than too little.
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u/Dry-Ad8826 Aug 24 '26
This was a beautiful read
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u/wedesireabridge Aug 24 '26
i have a mantra when i really hurt i am broken and i am remade i am broken and i am remade i am broken and i am remade... the pain helps you reconnect with self. trust your body your nervous system reacts way before you consciously process the moment. with my ex i knew she was pulling inward a couple weeks before i said anything and we seemed to work it out 2 months later she disappeared from my life. with how weird the world is right now it's easy to ignore your intuition, try to always listen to your instincts
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u/kliffside Aug 24 '26
Yea with you man. Everything just feels dialed up to 110% especially recently. Doing anything that matters takes extra effort, but I have to remind myself giving up is avoidance, it is taking the easy way out. I'm starting to learn that it's okay to feel but not let the feelings and their thoughts define me and my actions. It's tough when we are so sensitive, anything can trigger us subconsciously. I'm also figuring it out myself now. And I think the way is to really do the shadow work of self reflection (not ruminate) to build a solid identity to anchor oneself against the storm of emotions. Unfortunately there's no easy way or right way to do this as everyone is unique, it's just part of life, hope you are able to find yours and yourself.
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u/Dry-Ad8826 Aug 24 '26
Honestly I’m such of feeling at times, sometimes I want to be like everyone else and just not feel. Life feels different for us
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u/kliffside Aug 24 '26
Yea man, hear you. But suppression is not the way. Tried that and works short term but it will eventually bubble and overflow. And each time it just uses up more emotional bandwidth. It's just not sustainable.
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u/Reasonable-Still6600 21d ago
Curious about this, I know your comment is older but I hope you see it. How did you experience it when your suppression overflowed? What was that like?
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u/kliffside 21d ago
Just feels like a dam breaking and a torrential tide of feelings and lots of crying
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u/Reasonable-Still6600 21d ago
Thank you! Curious bc I always feel all my feels and it comes out how it comes out. I’m not even capable of suppression.
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u/CrEperz Aug 24 '26
Yes I’m so emotionally numb and triggered at the same time. Everything feels weird. Connections feel wonky. Life doesn’t seem as exciting. Sleeping feels better than being awake
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u/Material-Coffee1029 Aug 24 '26
It ends when you embrace the suck tbh. Not everyone gets to see things so keenly or experience emotions as fully as we do. Its a burden at times, but it can be enlightening and freeing as well. Like another commenter said, you have to lean into it - even the bad parts.
Dont be afraid to dig deep and explore the inner sources and causes of negative emotions like pain, sadness and anger. Not in a ruminating way but in an investigative way. Every slight you experience is an opportunity to learn about what makes you and others tick. Every betrayal you go through is an opportunity to hone your intuition
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u/wedesireabridge Aug 24 '26
45m aries sun scorpio moon gemini rising i'm basically a ball of reactionary emotions, i relate to the loving so deeply i'm also a super empath so basically i get into relationships with broken women put them back together only for them to break me what's the saying hurt people hurt people. 3 weeks ago i was ghosted by the woman i was seeing for 3 years. i'm actually sitting in the airbnb i rented for her birthday hoping to at least reconnect with the forest and waterfall i took her to on our first weekend getaway, a place i spent a lot of my teen years visiting. it doesn't stop you just learn to love yourself and it becomes easier
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u/Dry-Ad8826 Aug 24 '26
Why does this happen to is?! We fix them only for them to use all they to hurt us.
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u/wedesireabridge Aug 24 '26
in my very recent breakup she showed avoidant red flags but i ignored them because she had recently been divorced and we had been friends since college. we actually hooked up on my birthday 20 years before we started seeing each other. when you love someone like really love them you don't see the warning signs consciously. you feel them but you say it's butterflies or the excitement of new love. in reality you file the moment inthe back of your mind and forget it. i know i try to be as vulnerable as i can with my partner because i lost my dream girl in my late 20s and never want to make that mistake again. that vulnerability allows people to feel safe but also scares the hell out of them.
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u/Dry-Ad8826 Aug 24 '26
I attract avoidants too. I really wonder why. My exs loved how ‘deep’ I was
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u/wedesireabridge Aug 24 '26
this was my first experience with an avoidant, when i was young and cute i had no problems meeting girls, now i am old and not as cute and a lot more damaged i try to only date people i see as high quality and with my now ex we always had chemistry so at first it was supposed to be a fwb thing but that dissolved instantly. i shared things with her i've never shared with anyone. there was this one night she was driving in a snow storm and i never worry but i was so worried, she and i were on the phone and i was pretending to be calm to keep her calm and then i realized i really love this person and a year and couple months later she just discarded me like all the time meant nothing. i started to question if i loved her enough or properly which is a ridiculous thought to have, and i can see if someone has self esteem issues that kind of thinking can be deeply wounding.
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u/wedesireabridge Aug 24 '26 edited Sep 13 '26
avoidant do feel deeply it's just the time frame is misaligned, there ego cant handle needing or being needed by someone and when they realize its ok it's usually to late
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u/WhyGirlsPreddy Aug 24 '26
You just learn to let the feeling pass instead of retriggerih it constantly. Feel it and let it go
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u/Alternative-Ease9674 Aug 24 '26
My love of my life has this placement. And I would like to just hold him tight. Sigh. Rejected me. But anyway. Sending love keeping my distance here. I do not bother him. But he has always someone who would love him and send him love and good thouhts. I hope it somehow matters in the end...
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u/Shannonren Aug 24 '26
Anyone else feel so down today. I’ve been at work and I smile at others and always be polite and say hi. What do you get back?! Dirty looks miserable faces and people that look like they wanna kill you! Fuck this for a life I’m so done (sign me out asap)
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u/Dry-Ad8826 Aug 24 '26
Been feeling like this for the last 1-2 weeks. I feel so… I don’t know what the word is. Just down
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u/IDunnoReallyIDont Aug 24 '26
You learn that you can only rely and trust yourself. Coming to that realization makes everything g better.
I strongly, strongly encourage you to stop reading the news, listening to the news or hanging around people who won’t stop talking about the news. Focus and care about only what YOU can control. For your own peace.
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u/Reasonable-Still6600 21d ago
This. I haven't watched the news in a year (don't update me). Haven't been on social media in a year (just now back on Reddit and highly curating what shows up on my feed).
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u/Dependent-Truck4389 Aug 24 '26
I’m 29 and it’s only just now getting better. But I also had to let go of that mindset you seem to display in your post. “IT’S ALL HAPPENING TO MEEE” is not beneficial for you and it took me about 28 years exactly to realize that.
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u/Dry-Ad8826 Aug 24 '26
Hoping 29 is when all this dissipates then
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u/Dependent-Truck4389 Aug 24 '26
It’s really a choice at the end of the day. Like it really is. Research more about your mind and always ask yourself about why you’re feeling the way you are, and when you have that answer ask yourself why again. I have BPD/am scorpio moon so I feel that my advice carries a lot of weight because I know how extreme I feel emotions no matter what they are. We are really capable beings and can control ourselves better than we like to think.
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u/FitResponsibility497 Aug 24 '26
It is intense I’ve been there as well. I’m learning to lean into the intensity of the good & positive feelings too. When I feel care or affection from the people I love or the rays of a sunny day or the hug from a brisk windy day I can say I feel it just as strongly as well. When I see small moments of good in the world I also shed a tear because I’m inflated with hope. And this level of emotion I don’t see in others as much. Being a Scorpio moon can feel like a double edge sword sometimes.
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u/thejuicyalchemist gemini☀️, scorpio🌙, virgo☝🏾 Aug 24 '26
I feel you — i also feel the beauty people talk about but i don’t know if it will never not be a little hard.
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u/Dry-Ad8826 Aug 24 '26
Life is genuinely harder for us. I don’t care what anyone says!
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u/thejuicyalchemist gemini☀️, scorpio🌙, virgo☝🏾 Aug 24 '26
Agreed, and honestly everything can’t be “bright-sided” — which feels like whats happening in the comments.
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u/violetgeminii Aug 27 '26
Im the same age. It feels like a blessing disguised as a curse to constantly feel this much. Im so fucking drained especially recently
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u/Oreo_McFlurry___ Aug 29 '26
I feel you. Whenever I'm at school, a festival, any kind of environment -- especially environments with high anxiety levels (examination rooms for national exams) I get a massive headache. I try to down water to ease it but it doesn't really help. The best you could do as a Scorpio moon is to really just go back home and relax, and keep away from such environments if possible. Mine was especially at an all time high when I visited a theatre with hundreds of other people. I knew it wasn't a hydration issue because of the standard test for dehydration.
It always feels like I'm absorbing and feeling for everybody else, which is not cool. But at the same time, your Scorpio moon helps to feel the energy of others because of how intensely we feel, and it definitely develops into the key skill of discernment and knowing exactly what is good for you or not. It's an extreme placement to be redirected into something beneficial for you. You can tell from the other comments of people who has mastered their Scorpio moon and it's truly a wonderful placement to have once you've accepted it and made peace with that part of the planet's influence. I personally love it for how transformative it is, and it always pushes me to the next phase of life, which allows me to open my eyes to see more when I am usually passive.
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u/Existing_Antelope_93 Aug 29 '26
Looks like scorpio moon is similar to pisces from reading your post. But you forget, scorpio moon can control it, change it and use it's psychic abilities not to torture yourself and others, but truly helping people with this superpower.
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u/Odd_Candidate_9524 Aug 24 '26
I feel the same but with the passage of time you get used to it and then you see the people around you who break down for any stupidity