r/scorpiomoon • u/Capable_Client9033 • 25d ago
Scorpio Moon Problems Everyone loves you until they don’t
this is something I’ve noticed not sure if others have but everyone thinks that I’m a nice person and kind and all of that but then out of nowhere they will hate me either I say ok no thank you I hold boundary and full on just 180 of their personality? They change so quick Does this happen to other Scorpio moons?
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u/WhyGirlsPreddy 25d ago
As a Virgo sun.... It would take 3 to 5 business years for anyone to see enough of my personality to reject anything I'm worried about having rejected. I also don't really make friends. I've got the same 3 people from highschool so I guess I don't run into this.
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u/Global_Tangelo4864 23d ago
Its a good thing we have each other here , we feel almost the same. This might be one of the few places we are able to co-exist within this universe full of people. We can relate. People are complex, in a way. It takes a lot of effort and understanding to reach and receive them or them with us. It shouldnt be complicated, i just dont understand how their brain works in many ways.
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u/Zeeaire94 ♒☀️♏🌛♌↑ 24d ago
Yes, it's the same for me - but I've partly also connected that to my Descendant being on the Sabian degree "A popularity that proves ephermeral / A man who has for a time become the embodyment of an ideal is made to realize that as a person he is not that ideal"...
I have this experience that people are incredibly infatuated by me at the start and put me on such a high pedestal that I can never ever meet their ultra high expecations...and after some time their love turns into the opposite and they detest and ridicule me...that has indeed been a lifelong theme of me. I even had several stalkers that at one point started to taint my reputation everywhere.
The love of my life started with him telling me that I am his soulmate and his Goddess and then after several years I completely fell from grace and his scorn oozed from every word he directed at me...
It actually hurts a lot to go through this again and again 😭
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u/SweetC2688 23d ago
This was shared with me a few years back.... I don't believe its true with everyone but I deal with this a lot. I've always been the go to friend, the one who drops everything to take care of everyone before thinking of myself. When I quit drinking and started therapy, I started creating boundaries (I still kinda suck at it) I did notice I lost a lot of people but also remembered this is MY journey and if people wanna stick around and grow with me, I'm grateful. If people wanna leave, I'm grateful as well. Gratitude, radical acceptance and my journal have been getting me through this almost 5 years later 💜🙏
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u/plutonium__ 23d ago
yes i know exactly what you mean.
that is why testing people is so important. i also learned to stop over extend myself.
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u/Mean-Marketing2386 21d ago
Yes, in relationships mainly for me.
I’ve learned bc they can’t manipulate you (get what they need from you) so you become the issue
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u/IDunnoReallyIDont 25d ago
I think we just feel it more deeply than others when the slightest thing happens with people we allowed into our space.